Wasn't she upset with him because she said he would get upset that people thought he was such a perfect person that he never cursed drank or any of that when actually he did, that he was tougher than a lot of people thought. She said how when they got together that one time he didn't speak in his usual higher pitch voice and how he cursed and drank and everything.
Honestly if he did swear or drink, he was a grown man, he had the right to. I don't understand why people keep on conflicting with eachother though. One side says he drank, he cursed, he was just a normal man when others said he was very humble, didn't swear, didn't like to, and he didn't like to drink.