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Re: Open General discussion - Katherine Jackson vs AEG (daily threads merged)
I understand your point of view, and thank you for posting it. But I can't agree. If you love someone, you want what's best for that person, you want to help. Elizabeth taylor was able to do it once. Michael was clean in the last years of his life. He eventually knew the ones who stood up to him about drugs where right.
A lot of people complain about the leeches and enablers in his life. If all those people had said no, what would he have done ? I know it's not realistic to say that, but for me, she's just one of them. But i can undertsand it's human in a way, some people find it hard to be tough with someone who is already in trouble.
On another hand, the fact that she is jealous of all the women who were around him, accuses everyone when she did exactly the same things herself is not fair.
She loved him, and when the whole world turned against him, she wanted to support him and show loyalty instead of causing another conflict. Maybe part of it was fear of losing her position - which was legit, as she probably would have lost it, knowing how Michael avoided the problem and tended to distance himself from people who confronted him. But I also understand the other part of it where she wanted to stay by his side. He needed loyalty. It's not an easy black and white decision. Yes, in the long run it seems to be a coward choice to enable him. But let's face it, if she had said something, it probably wouldn't have changed anything other than her being employed.
It's easy to say now "they should have said/done something", but those who have dealt with a real addicted person in real life - especially with an addicted person that is more powerful than you - know that helping him is nearly an impossible task. Often it's a choice between providing unconditional support or being kicked out with your "truth". And everyone who was in Michael's circle and saw his problems had to make this choice. Karen, Michael's family, his employees, his managers - everyone.
Karen may have a lot of issues, but the most important thing I see about her is that she truly loves Michael. She loved him all those years, she still does, and probably will love him till the end of her life. And although he never returned her feelings or gave her what she needed, she still supported him all his life. For that, I'm willing to forgive her many things.
I understand your point of view, and thank you for posting it. But I can't agree. If you love someone, you want what's best for that person, you want to help. Elizabeth taylor was able to do it once. Michael was clean in the last years of his life. He eventually knew the ones who stood up to him about drugs where right.
A lot of people complain about the leeches and enablers in his life. If all those people had said no, what would he have done ? I know it's not realistic to say that, but for me, she's just one of them. But i can undertsand it's human in a way, some people find it hard to be tough with someone who is already in trouble.
On another hand, the fact that she is jealous of all the women who were around him, accuses everyone when she did exactly the same things herself is not fair.