Ramona122003
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I didn't want this to get personal but I lost my grandfather in a hit and run by a drunk driver and lived through IVM and civil trials so I do have an idea. Life as we know it as a family had came to stop and nothing else mattered. I can clearly say if it was my family member, I wouldn't do the same. Because you know why? When you feel that your loved one is taken from you early and unfairly, all you want to see is that the person responsible pays for what they have done. and yes the trial is difficult , painful, nerve wrecking and every other adjective that you can think of but you brave through it because it's not about you or how you feel but the person that is lost and cannot speak for themselves.
but on the other hand I guess Jacksons attendance can be explained by that they don't seem to blame Murray.
First of all, I am deeply sorry for the lost of your grandfather and I hope getting justice for him brought you some peace.
On topic, this list is actually better than I expected. I was surprise to at least recognize some of the names on the list. However, I do wonder if these performers realized what they are getting into. These names maybe good enough of you live in the UK already or in the nearby area, but I can't imagine people flying overseas to see this. This also boarders on false hype because Global Live has been promising big stars and this list doesn't cut it. Not to mention Global Live crappy attitude towards fans and the Jacksons' line of thinking that fans will run to anything with Michael's name on it.
As for the whole comparison to the Freddy Mercury Tribute, to be honest you can't really compare the two. Freddy died tragically from naturally causes from an illness that people didn't understand back then. His concert helped supported a cause to understand AIDS so people didn't have to suffer the same faith as Freddy. So in a sense, his tribute was held so his death wouldn't have been in vain.
Michael died because someone killed him. What can his tribute give to somehow make his death better? It simply doesn't. You can have a tribute to Michael 10 years from now and it wouldn't make much of a different than it does having one right now. As people pointed out, this makes the people who love Michael seem petty and disconnected. White they are planning this concert, the person who killed they love one is allow to go free without any kind of protest from the family. This isn't about fans' reaction, this is their father, son, uncle, and brother and yet they feel a need to hold a celebration instead of trying to act as Michael's voice.
It gets even worst if you take in mind that some in the family thinks Michael was murder on purpose for the sake of money. They claim to know names, but they still feel the need to hold a concert?
You know what this tells me as an outsider? This tells me that Michael getting killed or even purposely murder means nothing because at the end of the day he was just musician, not the person. It is much more important to sing his songs and talk about his musical impact then to acknowledge as a person who was killed. Because if they did see Michael as a full person and not as some kind of object, how can they even think about having this concert? How can they think 'withholding' information from the LAPD and make people pay for it in books and in interviews.
Personally issues aside, this is the thing I have come to hate about this family. They don't seem to see Michael as a human, but as nothing more than 'The King of Pop'.