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[Discussion] Sexual Abuse Claims Against MJ Estate - Robson/ Safechuck/ Doe
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LindavG
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Re: [Discussion] Wade Robson files claim of sexual abuse against MJ-Estate
I'm starting to think Wade may have pulled out of the show himself when he realised he wasn't getting it. That would not only save him from the embarrassment of telling people he wasn't chosen to do the CDS show when he spent so much time bragging about it, but he could also add it to the list of opportunities he missed out on due to the "abuse".
Actually, I'll take it even one step further. It would not surprise me if Wade had been planning this long before the CDS show, and he never planned to do the show in the first place. He knew he wouldn't get chosen ahead of Jamie King but the reason he signed up was so he could add it to his list of "opportunities" lost due to the abuse. That would explain why Wade was so confident speaking about it as if he was already chosen to do the show: he knew he would pull out himself before the final decision was taken (saves him from public embarrassment) and he could present this in court and in public as "see, I had this thing in the pocket if it weren't for the abuse". He is that conniving.
I'm starting to think Wade may have pulled out of the show himself when he realised he wasn't getting it. That would not only save him from the embarrassment of telling people he wasn't chosen to do the CDS show when he spent so much time bragging about it, but he could also add it to the list of opportunities he missed out on due to the "abuse".
Actually, I'll take it even one step further. It would not surprise me if Wade had been planning this long before the CDS show, and he never planned to do the show in the first place. He knew he wouldn't get chosen ahead of Jamie King but the reason he signed up was so he could add it to his list of "opportunities" lost due to the abuse. That would explain why Wade was so confident speaking about it as if he was already chosen to do the show: he knew he would pull out himself before the final decision was taken (saves him from public embarrassment) and he could present this in court and in public as "see, I had this thing in the pocket if it weren't for the abuse". He is that conniving.
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Re: [Discussion] Wade Robson files claim of sexual abuse against MJ-Estate
I don't understand this. He claims he's had actual knowledge of his alleged abuse since May 8, 2012, but they claim that is within 60 days before the petiotion was filed? It is not.
I don't understand this. He claims he's had actual knowledge of his alleged abuse since May 8, 2012, but they claim that is within 60 days before the petiotion was filed? It is not.
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In addition to what was already posted a couple of pages ago about insight-oriented psychotherapy, I found this interesting info:
It is widely believed that the insight-oriented psychotherapies provide their clients with valid methods of self-exploration that lead to bona fide self-knowledge. It also is widely believed that clients' insights must be true in order to be therapeutically effective. Both these claims are implausible. I argue that because clients face significant epistemic pressures in the therapeutic encounter, the insight-oriented psychotherapies are highly susceptible to generating placebo insights, that is, illusions, deceptions, and adaptive self-misunderstandings that convincingly mimic veridical insight but have no genuine explanatory power. The insight-oriented psychotherapies also are highly susceptible to generating therapeutic artefacts that appear to confirm the insights acquired by clients. The powerful treatment methods to which clients are subjected generate some of the very psychological and behavioral facts that clients claim to “discover” in their explorations. This impugns the scientific status of the insight-oriented psychotherapies. © 2001 John Wiley & Sons, Inc. J Clin Psychol 57: 19–36, 2001.
.... :thinking:
http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/...ionid=C1A4DB550C9190189F4DAC8826F8BA41.d03t03
It is widely believed that the insight-oriented psychotherapies provide their clients with valid methods of self-exploration that lead to bona fide self-knowledge. It also is widely believed that clients' insights must be true in order to be therapeutically effective. Both these claims are implausible. I argue that because clients face significant epistemic pressures in the therapeutic encounter, the insight-oriented psychotherapies are highly susceptible to generating placebo insights, that is, illusions, deceptions, and adaptive self-misunderstandings that convincingly mimic veridical insight but have no genuine explanatory power. The insight-oriented psychotherapies also are highly susceptible to generating therapeutic artefacts that appear to confirm the insights acquired by clients. The powerful treatment methods to which clients are subjected generate some of the very psychological and behavioral facts that clients claim to “discover” in their explorations. This impugns the scientific status of the insight-oriented psychotherapies. © 2001 John Wiley & Sons, Inc. J Clin Psychol 57: 19–36, 2001.
.... :thinking:
http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/...ionid=C1A4DB550C9190189F4DAC8826F8BA41.d03t03
Lil
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Re: [Discussion] Wade Robson files claim of sexual abuse against MJ-Estate
^"..with a conscious disregard for his rights as a child" ..:no: Pff hurts to read that about Michael who did more than anyone for children's rights in the world. This is all so F
ED up
^"..with a conscious disregard for his rights as a child" ..:no: Pff hurts to read that about Michael who did more than anyone for children's rights in the world. This is all so F
ED upHIStory
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Re: [Discussion] Wade Robson files claim of sexual abuse against MJ-Estate
And by the way bi-polar disorder is inheritable. Just saying. Would explain a couple of things.
(On a side note: Evan Chandler was bipolar too.)
The more likely reason for his father's suicide:
And by the way bi-polar disorder is inheritable. Just saying. Would explain a couple of things.
(On a side note: Evan Chandler was bipolar too.)
Re: [Discussion] Wade Robson files claim of sexual abuse against MJ-Estate
Good God - reading these court filings, they are full of sooo much nonsense. Proclaiming Wade to be some megastar?! Why did somebody highlight the part about Wade moving to LA two weeks before he was 9 - was that to show the contradiction about what Wade has said in public about "from the age of 7 to the age of 14"? Good work, if that's the case.
This whole thing is so sick, and I'm not sure whether to feel disgusted in Wade or just feel pity for him for being so pathetic. #gtfowtbs
Good God - reading these court filings, they are full of sooo much nonsense. Proclaiming Wade to be some megastar?! Why did somebody highlight the part about Wade moving to LA two weeks before he was 9 - was that to show the contradiction about what Wade has said in public about "from the age of 7 to the age of 14"? Good work, if that's the case.
This whole thing is so sick, and I'm not sure whether to feel disgusted in Wade or just feel pity for him for being so pathetic. #gtfowtbs
LindavG
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Re: [Discussion] Wade Robson files claim of sexual abuse against MJ-Estate
I still can't get over how ridiculous this is. This about sums up his credibility. "Claimant was not aware that the Decedent's estate had been opened for administration until he met with counsel for the very first time on March 4, 2013". Really? REALLY? -_-
Edit: I can't believe I missed the little gem that comes afterward! I'd love to have been there when Wade had his "revelation". I'm sure meeting with his legal advisers to discuss his claims of abuse is just part of the "healing process", not because he had any intention to file a lawsuit :smilerolleyes: Even his lawyer must be rolling his eyes while coming up with this stuff.
I still can't get over how ridiculous this is. This about sums up his credibility. "Claimant was not aware that the Decedent's estate had been opened for administration until he met with counsel for the very first time on March 4, 2013". Really? REALLY? -_-
Edit: I can't believe I missed the little gem that comes afterward! I'd love to have been there when Wade had his "revelation". I'm sure meeting with his legal advisers to discuss his claims of abuse is just part of the "healing process", not because he had any intention to file a lawsuit :smilerolleyes: Even his lawyer must be rolling his eyes while coming up with this stuff.
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LindavG
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Re: [Discussion] Wade Robson files claim of sexual abuse against MJ-Estate
Does this make sense to anyone? Wade seems to be claiming two completely opposite things. On the one hand, he felt shame and guilt for what happened to him and he feared he would go to jail if this ever came out. On the other hand, he believed until recently that there was nothing wrong with what happened to him, that it was an expression of love. Why would he feel shame and guilt if he didn't think he or Michael did anything wrong?
Not to mention how absurd it is for a grown man to still believe he would go to jail if he confided in anyone that he was sexually abused. He saw first hand that this is not how it works.
Edit: I see someone else raised this point too:
Does this make sense to anyone? Wade seems to be claiming two completely opposite things. On the one hand, he felt shame and guilt for what happened to him and he feared he would go to jail if this ever came out. On the other hand, he believed until recently that there was nothing wrong with what happened to him, that it was an expression of love. Why would he feel shame and guilt if he didn't think he or Michael did anything wrong?
Not to mention how absurd it is for a grown man to still believe he would go to jail if he confided in anyone that he was sexually abused. He saw first hand that this is not how it works.
Edit: I see someone else raised this point too:
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Re: [Discussion] Wade Robson files claim of sexual abuse against MJ-Estate
There are a few videos from around June-July of Wade teaching dance classes to MJ's Invincible song.
There are a few videos from around June-July of Wade teaching dance classes to MJ's Invincible song.
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LindavG
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Lil;3856796 said:
That's interesting, but I don't think Wade is suffering from "placebo insights". He knows he's full of it. His actions are WAY too calculated to be any kind of coincidence. The therapy is just a cover-up to look more legitimate, didn't the other "victims" do this too?
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Re: [Discussion] Wade Robson files claim of sexual abuse against MJ-Estate
:wtf:
It gets worse....uke: errin:
:wtf:
It gets worse....
uke: errin:Moonwalker.Fan
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Re: [Discussion] Wade Robson files claim of sexual abuse against MJ-Estate
... guys, you have many great, shrewd observations.... so let the MJ Estate lawyers KNOW about them.
They dont have much time to browse MJ boards like MJJC and threads about WR, so we have to let them know about the facts, all the available docs and videos we have, we have to cooperate and be interactive, who else can defend Michael now if not we-the fans.
there are the same patterns, the same schemes (like the Arvizos), the same storylines, the nonsensical timeline (1990-1997???)...
... guys, you have many great, shrewd observations.... so let the MJ Estate lawyers KNOW about them.
They dont have much time to browse MJ boards like MJJC and threads about WR, so we have to let them know about the facts, all the available docs and videos we have, we have to cooperate and be interactive, who else can defend Michael now if not we-the fans.
there are the same patterns, the same schemes (like the Arvizos), the same storylines, the nonsensical timeline (1990-1997???)...
Re: [Discussion] Wade Robson files claim of sexual abuse against MJ-Estate
is there a formal way that we can do this through MJJCommunity?
is there a formal way that we can do this through MJJCommunity?
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Re: [Discussion] Wade Robson files claim of sexual abuse against MJ-Estate
A few weeks back we had a post about Robson's cousin talking about shame and guilt. And I said the same thing - you can only feel shame and guilt if you know what you were doing was wrong. The guys needs to find one reason why he was silent about abuse for so long, and stick with it! Sheesh!
A few weeks back we had a post about Robson's cousin talking about shame and guilt. And I said the same thing - you can only feel shame and guilt if you know what you were doing was wrong. The guys needs to find one reason why he was silent about abuse for so long, and stick with it! Sheesh!
bluetopez
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Re: [Discussion] Wade Robson files claim of sexual abuse against MJ-Estate
He just mad that his MJ connection didn't result in a BIGGER career for himself, especially after MJ died! That's what it sounds like to me. And the blow of not getting that Cirque gig really made him go crazy!
He just mad that his MJ connection didn't result in a BIGGER career for himself, especially after MJ died! That's what it sounds like to me. And the blow of not getting that Cirque gig really made him go crazy!
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Re: [Discussion] Wade Robson files claim of sexual abuse against MJ-Estate
You are talking about Jonathan who made a comment on Yahoo answers?
Jonathan has also been talking to the UFO obsessed fruit-loop who made the Supporting Wade Robson page on facebook.
Here are his comments:
Thursday 27th June "I know what you mean Caroline, his FB page was pretty hard for me to read. I hope to think that he hasn't seen it, its probably the worst comments I've seen around the web. He did mention watching Alfonso Ribeiro's comments on his allegations (said that is the same joke he used to make), but I am hoping he only really keeps an eye on TMZ. I have been meaning to build up the courage to ask him what he has looked at.
In any case, he recently emailed photo's of his new life in Maui, it looks like he is doing well."
June 8th - "I agree Jasmine, probably contributed, especially the reported bullying, yet Wade can't be blamed for revealing the truth about what went on (which I have spoken to him personally about). It seems clear that there is a lot of dysfunction in the Jackson Family. I am just so upset for the possibility of the cycle of dysfunction continuing to be past to the next generation. "
June 20th -"Its good to hear Wade is helping some people, I will pass it along to him. I was never abused but seeing how hard it was for him to speak about it helped me realise shame in my own life. Feeling shame doesn't mean you have done something wrong.
Wade said that this video helped him speak about it for the first time - http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html "
June 20th - "It is definitely interesting to see how people respond to allegations of abuse, it seems to go the same way time and time again where the victim is vilified. I don't have an answer for why it is so hard for people accept, probably something to do with who we are as human beings, and not likely to change any time soon.
I think the best thing that we can do for those of us with a little bit of insight is to be completely accepting of other, and let others know what we will be completely accepting of things they feel vulnerable about."
You are talking about Jonathan who made a comment on Yahoo answers?
Jonathan has also been talking to the UFO obsessed fruit-loop who made the Supporting Wade Robson page on facebook.
Here are his comments:
Thursday 27th June "I know what you mean Caroline, his FB page was pretty hard for me to read. I hope to think that he hasn't seen it, its probably the worst comments I've seen around the web. He did mention watching Alfonso Ribeiro's comments on his allegations (said that is the same joke he used to make), but I am hoping he only really keeps an eye on TMZ. I have been meaning to build up the courage to ask him what he has looked at.
In any case, he recently emailed photo's of his new life in Maui, it looks like he is doing well."
June 8th - "I agree Jasmine, probably contributed, especially the reported bullying, yet Wade can't be blamed for revealing the truth about what went on (which I have spoken to him personally about). It seems clear that there is a lot of dysfunction in the Jackson Family. I am just so upset for the possibility of the cycle of dysfunction continuing to be past to the next generation. "
June 20th -"Its good to hear Wade is helping some people, I will pass it along to him. I was never abused but seeing how hard it was for him to speak about it helped me realise shame in my own life. Feeling shame doesn't mean you have done something wrong.
Wade said that this video helped him speak about it for the first time - http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html "
June 20th - "It is definitely interesting to see how people respond to allegations of abuse, it seems to go the same way time and time again where the victim is vilified. I don't have an answer for why it is so hard for people accept, probably something to do with who we are as human beings, and not likely to change any time soon.
I think the best thing that we can do for those of us with a little bit of insight is to be completely accepting of other, and let others know what we will be completely accepting of things they feel vulnerable about."
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Re: [Discussion] Wade Robson files claim of sexual abuse against MJ-Estate
It's the perfect storm, isn't it? Michael encourages a talented kid, tells him to shoot for the moon, and it goes to his head. When things don't turn out the way Wade fantasizes, he has a breakdown. He turns to a form of therapy that encourages him to believe his screwups are the fault of his childhood experiences, and Michael just has to be guilty, because nothing else could explain how the meteoric career trajectory of this budding international superstar, who's talented in so many ways that numbers enough have not been invented to count them all, could have come to such a screeching halt.
Good God. Would he really have even been offered even a quarter of the work he claimed to have turned down? I think the insight-oriented therapy must have gone overboard on the psychedelics.
It's the perfect storm, isn't it? Michael encourages a talented kid, tells him to shoot for the moon, and it goes to his head. When things don't turn out the way Wade fantasizes, he has a breakdown. He turns to a form of therapy that encourages him to believe his screwups are the fault of his childhood experiences, and Michael just has to be guilty, because nothing else could explain how the meteoric career trajectory of this budding international superstar, who's talented in so many ways that numbers enough have not been invented to count them all, could have come to such a screeching halt.
Good God. Would he really have even been offered even a quarter of the work he claimed to have turned down? I think the insight-oriented therapy must have gone overboard on the psychedelics.