Call me cynical guys, but there is a depth and range to human behavior that many of you don't understand and reading about crimes in the paper is not the same as seeing certain actions take place. I work in homes and the people appear wonderful, sweet, love their children and moms, etc. However, some have killed for monetary gain and the people in the house know it and went to court to lie to help the members, which is why some only spend 5-8 years in prison. Some bring family members together to do bad things, like plan stick ups; go and beat someone up to near death; rob places; send grandma to visit son in prison and place drugs in her hair for her to give son; have illegal guns in their homes and use it for robbery & to defend themselves; have gone out to commit a crime and run back home to give the mom the gun to hide, because the cops were called and the mom knows and knows where the money comes from; sell crack, cocaine right by the houses; some of the females would get arrested and the judge will let them go, because the judge pays them for sex, so they don't care if they are arrested; etc. These family members will go to court for each other or friends and lie for the person. I hear them planning their lies. Sometimes I see when certain people get a call and run out of the house to do something. If I did not see, they will sit and tell me what they did. Even those who told me they killed people say it in a natural way. Being a friend has nothing to do with it, since some have laughed with me & I have helped them in personal matters, but they have still tried to scam me even though they have said they like me. Sometimes on Monday when I go back to work a person would say "girl I have been waiting for you to come today; if you know the shit that went down this weekend." Then, I would hear about who was beating up who, and called for their "shit" (a gun). I am telling you guys that sometimes I can't enter a building due to the blood at the front and the police tape around it. Now I am in these people's homes for reasons that has nothing to do with their actions in society, so I listen and marvel about how people have different sides. How they look so normal and like the guy next door, but are engaged in behaviors that people will not believe. Every year I look into the eyes of people who are abusers, murderers, have raped their women, etc. In fact, I would go in one day and the woman would tell me how the man raped her last night. He told her you either do it willingly or I am going to get it anyway. The women always claim they just lie and let the men do it until it is over. Sometimes they show me their torn clothes. Then, the same men talk to me so nicely, you will never know. It is because of these experiences, that I am not going to take everything at face value.
I feel all Wade's relatives who are pushing this advertisement know he is lying, since families of abusers do not go on campaigns. There has been no huge media coverage shouting that Wade is lying, so there would be no need for family members to try to convince people that Wade is telling the truth. If the main media is not saying Wade is a liar, the family, under normal circumstances would simple stay quiet and wait for the case. So why do these particular family members come out trying to convince people that Wade is telling the truth? Abused victims do not have to campaign for people to believe them if they know it is the truth. The mere fact they are doing a campaign means they know it is not true so they need to push the idea that it is true, so people will believe. Notice that Wade is quiet while they campaign, so the plan must be that Wade will keep quiet so it will seem that the victim is laying low, and the faithful family is doing this all on their own. I think Wade told them this is what he is going to do, and he told them what they are to do. He is doing this with the family members who are advocating for him. In the end, all are expecting they will benefit financially.
