Sorry my post upset you. I only wanted to stimulate some thought and was not saying that "if there is/was" a LITD girl that this was the situation. Nor do I think MP at all thinks this. :no:
I'm not upset at all. I don't think that was necessarily the situation. I just thought the whole thing was kinda interesting because we had just been talking about that song and well ... I kind of see MJ a little like the Phantom of the Opera (in a good way, of course). I mean, we no longer "see" him, but he is still putting out songs about love. Sorta like he's a "phantom" of music (or of the opera).
Well, I hope this possible LITD girl would be stronger than to let this last post of mine upset her. One thing we have felt in here is that this girl was someone who has a close relationship with God. And through the years she would have been checking with God over and over again if what she was feeling was real.
Nah, I don't believe she would be upset over this post. (Hey, shout out to the LITD girl, if you're watching us all from the wings.unk:)
I have been on MJJC now for enough time to have not let any fan's opinion scare or affect me.
Hoooraaay! Wouldn't we want the LITD girl to not let others opinions get her down either? To not let anything the media has to say get her down? Someone who has placed more importance on God's opinion over man's?
Yep, she cannot be in MJ's world and be a winp! lol!
What I really was addressing was the importance of getting out of God's way when possibly the "right one" has come our way. For one, to not try to "control" or make it happen, to not try to "will" someone to love you back or beg God to let the one you think you love to want you back. If you believe God is behind it then it is about letting go and allowing God to gently lead you and wait for Him to bring it into being in His timing. To trust and let Him do it without getting in His way.
Let the church say, "AMEN!":angel:
My purpose was also to caution us all to always check and make sure that we are not being caught up in something that may feel is real, but is not. And that there are some out there that can draw you to them because of their alluring and charismatic personalities, but it is not based on an authentic attraction. I am speaking of experience in my past, I have been around several like this...and it causes a strong pull.
True. Those types of relationships are fun at first, but then you end up getting very hurt.
But this doesn't mean I am saying MJ is like this. The video just got me thinking about this type of controlling, obsessive love that the Phantom had for this girl.
MJ controlling and possessive? No way!:cheeky:
By the way, mysterygirl7, nice to see you.