I think a woman in Michael's life would have to be the not jealous type. There's so much out there and girls always hugging and wanting from Michael. There has to be an acceptable balance especially if he's coming home to her at night/or...whenever :scratch:
The manhood thread is a trip and I think I'd have some serious adjusting to do if my hubby had threads made about him like that one or even this one.
I think it would be hard for Michael to find someone who can deal with all that and remain uneffected. My own thoughts would be he'd have to find a very strong woman.
^ yes, and a lot of course would seem to me, depend on how he is with "her" as well as "she" with him. As someone said, having women following him around does go with his job and he's handled it however he has for this long, so he's got a strategy that "she" would have to understand and he would have to help her manage her expectations about or they come to agreements or whatever. It seems that it could work as long as communication is continuously clear, and their relationship is uniquely close as partners in the whole thing, because I can imagine it could include still, some flirting which believe it or not, even for shy people, is very expedient for keeping aggressive people at bay or sometimes it could be expedient for mingling, at parties or with fans, especially when all fans really want is a little bit of reciprocity of feeling or to be able to feel he is giving them back some of the energy they are giving him, and by him being a "people-person" it could always remain a part of the routine so to speak.
Now, if "she" is a "people-person" too, very gragarious in fact, it could help I would imagine. Even with the pecks (kisses) to fans here and there, he is likely to at times feel, then, just as now, that that is what is called for at a given time - maybe to calm a hysterical fan down or any socially acceptable reasons "they" agree upon that he deems appropriate and sometimes necessary. I know couples who are both very socially gragarious people and have been together for many decades without those things being problems. They are usually in some business like the restaurant business or fashion retail or whatever, and understand eachothers' personalities.
I do feel that his perspective may be even more important than "hers" though because it is
his business to have females around him, and his view of it all will set the tone for their relationship as he knows his business and she doesn't. It seems that as long as she is an truly understanding woman, and knows exactly what he's working with in terms of his actual job description, and is yes, very strong, it could be a good thing. And as long as "they" are first and foremost emotionally and spiritually intimate as partners in the matter of his career, and their relationship, and open and honest in expressing feelings, frustrations etc. because there are bound to be some, with the press, random people, fans, workers, advisors, family - just given what is all involved. That's why if they are spiritually intimate now, as this thread suggests, they may have a good head start on things.
Speaking of spiritual intimacy ..
You're right, Moddie777! He DID say "I can will you near to me" in "Butterflies!"
CD Cover:
All I gotta say is that I must be dreaming, can't be real
You're not here with me, still I can feel you near me
MJ:
All I got to say is that I must be dreaming, can't be real
You're not here with me. See, but I can will you near to me (1:40)
He surrrre did say that! That shows MJ will sometime tap into the spiritual side to get some things accomplished....
Annnnnd if he's finding himself being drawn to someone in a spiritual way, it makes things a little more interesting. It means having to look below the surface of things...look beyond what's trivial. It gives him a little more to do.
He is a very curious person and he's also very tenacious. It seems like he would get bored very quickly if something is too simple.
If his relationship with her is spiritual, he'll have to look deeper in order to get a feel of what they are going. Plus, he likes mystery.
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:lol: not sure why this made me laugh
well, ok so, in a nutshell ...
A few years ago, between 1999 and 2001 there was a woman living inside of an ordinary moment in her life when something whispered in her ear and told her to Google Michael Jackson - - ok so then, she would have found what - the Black or White website - so she went there - got what she needed of his 'energy' and went on with her life and the next thing she knew she heard One More Chance
aw :wub:
and now she's "somewhere out there" going absolutely bananas reading this thread :lol: