Not only do I believe that MJ would still be alive, I also think the 05 trial would have never happened. Lisa would have seen through the Arviso's BS right from jump and would have kept them away from her family.
I honestly think the last 15 years would have been very different for Mike if they had stayed married.
Lisa was angry with Michael. She wasn't going to defend him! Why can't people see that? She was lashing out at him the only way she felt she could. In a way she did defend him because she could've dogged him out for real and could have lied about the truth of the relationship. But she didn't. She has always said she loved him and what they had was real.
If Lisa doesn't deserve forgiveness then neither does LaToya, Jermaine, Joe, etc. People get angry and they say things that aren't always positive or nice. We've all done it and Lisa is no different.
Why can't people just give her a break? Michael's gone now but because of Lisa he had the love he was searching for like he talked about in those secret phone calls. Obviously, it was something very powerful for Lisa as well because she wouldn't have ben so angry about it. Can you blame her for being angry or hurt that it didn't work out? She obviously had hoped it would have been much different.
I completely agree! Lisa said once that while they were together Michael never ever once had a kid sleep in the room due to respect for Lisa. You know, privacy and stuff. Lisa would have never allowed it to happen and also, i saw some interview of Gavin's mother and trust me, Lisa would have seen right through her fake ass. And think about it, even if Michael would have gone to jail, the fact that he would have had someone there like Lisa to help him work things out would have made a HUGE difference. And while Michael was with Lisa he was always smiling and was extremely playful. He stated in an interview once on tv guide that a marriage to him is knowing from the beginning that she is the one. He saw Lisa and that's exactly what he thought. So i dont think he would have been so depressed and needed help with sleeping if Lisa would have been around. And Lisa did lash out because she was severely hurt, everyone does it. But i don't think she was lying at all in anything she said, and when Howard stern asked her about his penis and stuff she politely said that she wasn't going to talk about it.
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the DS interview is etched in my memory. DS kept asking.... Lisa kept saying and squirming as if SHE DID REALLY DO SOMETHING WRONG. give me a break. now because she was invited to the burial and she was crying I am to feel sorry for her?
I feel sorry for Michael. I am so sorry your ex-wife DID NOT defend you on 4 different interviews.
People want to call michael immature? no matter how upset... the stunt that she pulled at the hospital.... where even Katherine was upset with her .. what about that? I understand that she was upset. To a certain degree she had every right to be. But by the same token..... she acted like he wasn't sick.. there is another thread on here when the doc who treated michael said michael was really ill.
i don't understand how some people are feeling so sorry for her based on the reports that she was at the burial distraught? why do people even find this surprising. so surprising that people feel so bad and touched by it. what did people expect... she would go to the burial sit there with emotionless??
not to mention.... she and oxman were like the first people say... drug addiction was the reason for the cause of death on JUNE 25th.
the bottom line is this. i am sorry she is grieving. I think they did love each other. its sad that it didn't work out. but just because one grieve's now doesn't mean that all the PUBLIC trashing or non defense of Michael would be erased.
no see, Lisa in the interview looked mad and annoyed. Haven't you ever dated someone or liked some one and then every one starts giving you crap about it? you ignore everyone and when things don't work out with that person everyone around you is STILL giving you crap about it. That's what happened to Lisa. She was annoyed because people were asking her too many questions and she was probably thinking dam..wth was i thinking?!? I think the only reason why Lisa ever once regretted the relationship is because she fell
hard for michael and never fully gotten over him. Sort of like when you like some one so much, and you can't get over that person that you think "dam, why did i have to like you".
And in the hospital yes lisa acted wrong and impulsively. But she hadn't seen Michael for week's, maybe months! I would have been pissed off too. But in all fairness to her, she did try the next day to talk to Michael calmly, but Katherine got mad and wouldn't let Lisa talk to Michael.
And Lisa never pointed out he was a druggie. She just said that Michael was afraid to die like Elvis (possibly meaning dying at a young age), and she said he had a destructive behavior sometimes. But she also said that Michael had a power etc and that when he was good he was realy good. She also said she lost herself and wasn't being a good mom for her kids. This is totally acceptable and understandable. Kids go before anyone IMO. I bet if she wouldn't have had kids, she would have never left him.
I agree. There is NO evidence to back up the birth control allegation. People really need to stop with all the speculating. She said that he told MJ she just didn't think it was the "right time" to have kids when he asked so why would she have to play games with birth control? She didn't is the answer.
I also don't believe Lisa had anything to gain from lying about Michael or his behavior. She's the one who took the hit to her reputation for being with him. If anything she had much more to gain by lying and saying the relationship was fake. I think everything she has said thus far is the truth as how she saw it from her perspective. It's obvious that she didn't get whatever questions she had answered by Michael for unknown reasons.
Lisa is clearly a hot button issue for many fans but please let's try to remember that rumor, scandal and specuation caused MJ alot of pain. We shouldn't want to put that on anyone else. Especially someone that Michael loved dearly.
I agree. No mater what happened, Lisa was the love of his life. In his phone conversations to Glenda he said he wanted to have a REAL relationship with a women that loved him for HIM and not because his name is Michael Jackson. And yes, i too agree Lisa was everything Michael needed. He had witnessed his mom going through a tough marriage and wished many times his mom were strong enough to leave joseph, But she never did. In Lisa he found someone funny, someone on the same level of fame as him, understanding, she didn't attack him etc. Michael hated when girls threw themselves on him and stuff. I think he liked the fact that Lisa didn't really like him at the beginning and that
he had to chase her. It wasn't normal for him and he liked that. Lisa has always said that Michael was the instigator for everything.