Finally, embracing explanatory fictions and therapy-induced self-deceptions
respect77;4061841 said:
I do not believe Wade has false memories, but I would not be surprised if he did try hard to convince himself that it happened. I don't think it will last long though. Whatever happens to this case, making up explanatory fictions and try to make himself believe them to explain his current mental issues will not work for long, because obviously his mental issues are rooted more deeply and are probably genetic and hereditary.
I wrote this long long ago but it wouldn't surprise me if these were false memories and he believes them to be true.
If you look to the information from 90s when a lot of women came up with the "repressed memories" of "oh my family abused me" it was all based on an existing mental / emotional issue and therapy - faulty therapy. In other words those women had some emotional / mental issues, they sought help by going to therapy. They wanted to find a reason for their problems, for closure, for healing and then they with the help of faulty therapy created the false memories of being abused. In their minds - that false memories explains to them why they have issues and they find closure and start to heal.
I wouldn't be surprised that Wade indeed had some mental / emotional problems and breakdown. He probably sought help to find out what is wrong with him and hopefully get cured and get better. It's possible that he created a childhood sexual abuse scenario as an easy way out. Remember he has been deposed / testified twice as other people claimed he was abused. It's possible that his father questioned if he was abused as well (cascio's father said he asked his kids if something happened). So it's not really a stretch for him to focus on those and say "oh perhaps I was indeed abused but I was in denial". It's very possible that his so called "realization" is giving him closure as in his mind it explains him why he had the mental/emotional problems and all of other stuff he does is his way of healing and moving on. So in other words he might have created a false memory and believe it to be true. His family wouldn't be any wiser about it and they would simply believe what he says.
Of course it is also possible that this is more sinister act - that he is lying knowingly and intentionally and other people might be aware of it as well.
as a side note: there are relationship between bipolar disease and misinterpretation memories and even paranoid delusions. I read many bipolar people think false memories are real. There were some very simple examples. For example wife asks husband - who is bipolar- why he didn't take the trash out. He says he took it out and has a very vivid and seemingly real memory of taking it out. However when he checks he sees he didn't take it out and he realizes he just thought he should take the trash out and that thought has turned into the real seeming false memory of actually taking the trash out.
a quote "A pattern of intensely hyper-emotional responses, especially to situations that trigger abandonment fears. It’s a pattern of demanding, critical and chaotic relationships instead of cooperative communicating.
It’s a pattern also of misinterpreting situations as hurtful that are in fact benign, with the misinterpretations occurring either while the situation is happening, or in retelling the events later. It also may be a pattern of attractive and highly competent-appearing social functioning at times alternating with periods of intense and inappropriate anger, narcissism, and explicitly hurtful behavior (to themselves or to others).”"
As for delusions " people with bipolar disorder can have delusions -- ie, false fixed beliefs (eg, that someone harmed them when that did not occur) or poor insight (eg, inability to grasp certain realities), though neither of these is quite the same thing as "false memories," which are not per se part of bipolardisorder."
As far as I can see experts don't call these as "false memories", they refer to them misinterpretations or delusions but the nature is almost the same - believing things happened when they didn't or misinterpreting an event that happened.