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Awww, thanks, Cass! So glad you remembered me, sweetie. Missed ya. How have you been?? ^_^
 
I'm so scared right now....

Today we got the results of the exams my mom made and unffortunately it seems that my mom has a failure in her heart.
From what i could understand,my mom's heart stops beating for a few seconds from time to time.Also her blood pressure is completly out of control.
I thought i was going to know what to do help my mom getting better...but i guess this will never happen?
Next week i have to go with her to make some breathing and efforts tests .
I wonder what that is...What if she gets worst because of being more tired than ususal?
i am so tired of all this...i just don't know what to do anymore.
 
Maria, I feel for you:better:
I do wish there was anything I could say that was helpful, but from what you say it seems like your mothers situation is very complicated because there are a lot of different conditions at the same time.
You are very brave, and very dedicated to your mother and she must be very grateful and happy to have your love and care.


Take care,and warm hugs to you.
 
Mariajoaosilva said:
I'm so scared right now....

Today we got the results of the exams my mom made and unffortunately it seems that my mom has a failure in her heart.
From what i could understand,my mom's heart stops beating for a few seconds from time to time.Also her blood pressure is completly out of control.
I thought i was going to know what to do help my mom getting better...but i guess this will never happen?
Next week i have to go with her to make some breathing and efforts tests .
I wonder what that is...What if she gets worst because of being more tired than ususal?
i am so tired of all this...i just don't know what to do anymore.
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Babe... Maybe you should ask the doctor if your Mom can have a pace maker. My Grandmother's heart only worked 15% of the time and she had one put in... What it does is when the heart stops beating, it beats for the heart... Or, you could get one that shocks the heart when it stops so it restarts.

Hope all gets well. *hugs!!!*
 
Mariajoaosilva said:
I'm so scared right now....

Today we got the results of the exams my mom made and unffortunately it seems that my mom has a failure in her heart.
From what i could understand,my mom's heart stops beating for a few seconds from time to time.Also her blood pressure is completly out of control.
I thought i was going to know what to do help my mom getting better...but i guess this will never happen?
Next week i have to go with her to make some breathing and efforts tests .
I wonder what that is...What if she gets worst because of being more tired than ususal?
i am so tired of all this...i just don't know what to do anymore.
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................................Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww:(:better:
I really hope the doctors will help her with this!:better:
 
my heart and prayers go out to u i almost lost my mom last yr ,,, my mom suffers congestive heart failure so i know what u go through
 
MariaJo....if I had all the money in the world, I'd fly your mother here....get her the absolute best doctors imaginable. My heart goes out to you. Mothers are so special. I'd hate to have to go through what you are going through....
 
man_in_the_mirror...thank you so much.A friend,real friends is exactly what i need.I'm here for you as well.Anytime.


a_silver_lining...Thank you so much for your thoughts and prayers.it's very well appreciated.i can imagine that you felt just like i do...very scared.
Your mom and you will be form now on in my prayers too.Take care ok?

LindaC781...You are to seet to me and there's not enough words to thank all your love and support.
yes mothers are very special.Mine is for sure a very strong woman that fights everyday to move on.
If you had all the money in the world...money dosen't bring happiness.Your friendship and constant support does.
Thank you,from the bottom of my heart linda!
If you had to go through the same as me,i am sure you would be great.You are a wonderful person and your mother is a very lucky person to have you.

I was supposed to bve with my family doctor today...but she had an emergency so i have to call tomorrow and see if hopefully i can be with her next wednesday.I'll update you all when i have news.
Thank you all so much for everything.
tight hugs
 
Hey Maria. I was at work earlier when you messaged me and my phone wasn't on me. U were offline before I got back there to check it. Thanks for the sweet message. Sorry to hear about your Mom's heart condition. Maybe they will give her a defibrillator implant? My father-in-law had one for years and it worked great for him. U can read about it here. http://www.hearthelp.com/sca/defibrillator.html

Tell your Mom that I siad Hi. Btw. Message me anytime when you c me online on my phone. Always good to hear from you. xxx
 
Hi, Maria. Did you get ahold of the doctor yet? Did you tell them my idea of a Pace Maker? I hope it's a good idea for the doctor. I'm surprised they didn't talk about it with you. :(
 
Dear Maria, I really wish I could give you a huge HUG. You are coping so well with all this terrible worry, you have been so strong for such a long time.
I hope and pray that the doctors will be able to give you some good news for your mother. My love to you both, xx
 
cass...my sweet friend...it's ok that you couldn't talk.Thank you so much for the link.Will for sure give your message to my mom.She has a special feeling for you only because you are from ireland.(she studied english in Dublin when she was young,and she is completly in love with ireland since then).

Michaholic...you are suprised my dear,because you don't live in a 3rd world country like mine is.I will be with my doctor tomorrow,april 1st,and my mom will have a lung XR.After that she will have to do some breathing and efforts tests and i don't know yet when that will be,because the hospital dosen't do them without the resoults of the lung exam.
I do hope that my family doctorcan tell me and do something for my mom in the meantime.

Janey...i really would love and appreciate a hug right now.
A sholder where i could cry and rest.I've been doing thebest way i can,and believe me if i didn't haveall the love and support i am having from you and everybody here,i have noidea how or where i would be now.
My online family,cares way much more than my real family,and my mom hurts a lot because of it.I have 2 brothers,but they rarely see or talk to my mom.She misses them so much...I try to do everything to take her pain away,but i can't replace my brothers,and sometimes that frustrates me a lot,as they are the reason my mom hurts.
Anyways...Thank you so so much for your hugs and love.It means a lot more than i can say.
 
Well...what more can say besides the fact that i had enough?
I'm so tired of all this!

So my mom made yesterday a x ray,and she has a lung problem.
I wonder what will happen next?

As if all this wasn't enough already,my health is starting to acting up and now i have to do some blood tests and exams too.

Sometimes i wish i wouldn't wake up anymore.
 
Don't even think it. Put on some Michael music and be prepared. We'll get you through this...
 
omg my thoughts and prayers are with u at this hard time hun say strong for your mom and u stay strong for yourself too ... i kinda do the same thing i help take care of my sister whos 52 and my mom whos 77 my sis is in a wheelchair my moms just getting older so she cant do all the things she did when she was younger!! so i know that your health can be affected as well..
 
Mariajoaosilva said:
Well...what more can say besides the fact that i had enough?
I'm so tired of all this!

So my mom made yesterday a x ray,and she has a lung problem.
I wonder what will happen next?

As if all this wasn't enough already,my health is starting to acting up and now i have to do some blood tests and exams too.

Sometimes i wish i wouldn't wake up anymore.
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*:wub:Big BEARHUG:wub:* from us all,stay strong,you guys will get trough it,and we are here to support you!:yes::D And Michael aswell!:D:yes::wub:

Keep the faith
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Those songs always help me!:yes::D:yes::wub:
 
Mariajoaosilva said:
Well...what more can say besides the fact that i had enough?
I'm so tired of all this!

So my mom made yesterday a x ray,and she has a lung problem.
I wonder what will happen next?

As if all this wasn't enough already,my health is starting to acting up and now i have to do some blood tests and exams too.

Sometimes i wish i wouldn't wake up anymore.
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Hang in there Maria, you are doing so well. Your courage and strenght will help you trough these rough times. You'll be in my thoughts. Take care! :better:
 
Thank you all so so much for the prayers,the love and support.
There are really not enough words to describe what all of you mean to me....
Today my mom is very anxious and nervous because tomorrow it's finally the day when we will go to the hospital in the morning,and see what her aneurysm docotr wants to do.
There's a possiblitly that her embolization is scheduled.
Also i was finnaly able to make the appoitment to go with my mom to her lung exams and breathing proofs.It will be on the 20th of this month.
I know i shouldn't think anbout quiting,but sometimes it gets too exauting and frustrating to go to appoitments and make all kindof tests and exams and never have a real answer.
I really hope that tomorrow my mom's doctor can actually say and do something.
 
Hi Everybody...

I should have updated you all yesterday,but i was feeling too tired and without strengh to do anything.

So...my mom and i went to the hospital and i was really hopping that this time something could be done...But i should know that i live in country that is a joke!
My mom needs another angigraphy and embolization,but the equippament is broken and noone knows when it will be fixed!The doctor thinks that till the end of July,they will have new equipament,but it's not for sure.
Due to that fact,the doctor schedulled a new appoitment to august 25th,hopping that by then she can schedule the exams my mom needs for september.

Now i ask...what if something happens to my mom in between?
Going to the hospital can't be a solution.
My family doctor is on vacation for 2 weeks and i can't wait to talk to her.
At least she can always find a way to help me and my mother.
After this,i just don't know anymore what to do.
All i know is that i am exauted because my mom keeps talking about death.I can't imagine my life without her!
 
...............Awwwwwwwww hun:(:better:
big bearhug:better::wub:

We are here and we stay here,no need to thank us at all,thats what friends are for!:D
 
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