smoothcriminal12
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Drugs are absolutely horrifying. I've seen what they do to people, and I will never involve myself with any of it.
Drugs are absolutely horrifying. I've seen what they do to people, and I will never involve myself with any of it.
I also think we should take advantage of others' problems for monetary gain.
I also think we should take advantage of others' problems for monetary gain.
Said Bloodnosky. ... You are a piece of work. ^... What else can one add to what you said, when you've made it so clear before that you are amoral? Taking advantage of others' problems. I have this friend who seriously wanted to push my buttons and irritate me, hence she'd say absolutely annoying things, others that were blatantly disrespectful, others totally inhumane, and I only realized it recently when she all of a sudden did that, because she used to fuel my depression before. A totally selfish action to do. And now, since I'm better, and saw how I'm not falling in her trap again, she's nice.
Is this maybe the case with you, that you are sometimes typing things on the spare of the moment just to dumbfound? ^...
No, I really feel that way. I don't really know you, so I don't have anything to gain by making you angry.
I'll tell you what really pees me off. Addicts who come clean and then develop this self-congratulatory attitude as if they did something amazing for the world. So you got off the drugs? Big whoop! How about a round of applause for those who never took them in the first place? They will regularly want to share their 'story' to remind us how 'tough' their life has been, I mean erm seriously? Life IS tough! Try living life without a crutch like the rest of us before whining about how hard-done by you are! Drugs are a cop-out of life, don't tell me how hard life has been for you on drugs, you've basically not even been living life and dealing with how hard life can be, you chose the easy option. And you chose to take them, nobody made you. Rant over.
I'll tell you what really pees me off. Addicts who come clean and then develop this self-congratulatory attitude as if they did something amazing for the world. So you got off the drugs? Big whoop! How about a round of applause for those who never took them in the first place? They will regularly want to share their 'story' to remind us how 'tough' their life has been, I mean erm seriously? Life IS tough! Try living life without a crutch like the rest of us before whining about how hard-done by you are! Drugs are a cop-out of life, don't tell me how hard life has been for you on drugs, you've basically not even been living life and dealing with how hard life can be, you chose the easy option. And you chose to take them, nobody made you. Rant over.
I agree with your post....:agree:I must voice my agreement, to a degree. While it is good that someone who had a drug problem got help, etc. I, like you, don't really see the point in "congratulating" them over it. As you pointed out, nobody made them take the drugs to begin with--it was entirely a matter of choice (and a grave mistake.) Getting off the drugs is akin to fixing that mistake--nothing anyone should get congratulated for, looking at it logically. You can feel happy for them if they mean something to you, I suppose, but there's really no reason why the general public should admire you, or congratulate you at all.
Some of us who have had lives which were less than pleasant never found the need to do drugs--and yet, no one congratulates us over it (nor do we want them to.) It seems rather twisted that people who basically had the master hand in f--ing their lives over get all sorts of attention and congratulations when they finally get clean, which is frankly the way they should have always been.
As you pointed out, nobody made them take the drugs to begin with--it was entirely a matter of choice (and a grave mistake.)
Getting off the drugs is akin to fixing that mistake--nothing anyone should get congratulated for, looking at it logically. You can feel happy for them if they mean something to you, I suppose, but there's really no reason why the general public should admire you, or congratulate you at all.
Some of us who have had lives which were less than pleasant never found the need to do drugs--and yet, no one congratulates us over it (nor do we want them to.) It seems rather twisted that people who basically had the master hand in f--ing their lives over get all sorts of attention and congratulations when they finally get clean, which is frankly the way they should have always been.
You're now saying that, besides drugs being a matter of choice, they're also a grave mistake to be doing? After all the theories you've elaborated on that, no matter what, drugs, they're a matter of choice and you advocate for one's free will.
Alma said:That's absolutely true. But you are now again self-contradictory by saying that being clean is the way they/people should have always been. Yet you are still advocating for their free will - in this case, about doing drugs (no matter which kind) or not? ... So, what is it, then? ....
Well, the fact that you said it was a grave mistake was a sort of a bombshell, for in all of your comments about drugs so far, you chose to remain completely impartial as far as people's freedom of choice goes, didn't say whether drugs are a good or a bad thing, just that you're pro free will and you advocated for drug legalization and stated your reasons for your being behind that. That's still a bit self-contradictory, for you're now mixing your personal perspective on drugs with people's freedom to do them or not. If, say, your brother (or other close person who you love, no matter how few, 2, 3..) did drugs he buys from these legalized dream shops (supposing he didn't even use any of them before, meaning illegally) and they're destroying him irreparably, would you still say it was his choice to do that and That's it, knowing your personal feelings about drugs? Would you say to him, "What you did was a grave mistake", meaning buying drugs (again, keeping in mind that he never tried them before they got legalized) from the legalized drug shops? Would you still be advocating for their legalization if your brother dies? Sorry for the creepy scenarios, but I really am trying to understand your point of views better, or your very radical, exact mind. Or at least in your mind say 'Well, I don't care what happens'?.. Even if a huge percentage would exist about the rise of drug usage in people with the legalization of drugs (and say, those people never tried drugs before their becoming legal), including the rise of people's deaths? Would you still advocate it for economic reasons?
You've proved, however, that you are still in tune with emotions, i.e. your personal dislike of drugs when it comes to your health, or others, even if you don't care about their choices. Say your brother told you 'Well, I bought the drugs legally, not illegally, not from drug dealers in the street, so it was all out in the open.' Would you tell him "What a dumb idiot you were, you shouldn't have bought drugs", or "Well, I don't care about you anyway, I only care about myself, it was your choice to do the drugs, so if you're damaged and dying, that's not my problem, but yours". If you'd tell him "What a grave mistake you made", it means you are a human, logical human being with feelings as well, for you admit that drugs aren't good, irrespective of their freedom of choice. However, if that was a friend, instead of your brother, one you don't like/care about, would you tell him "I don't care about you anyway", or also tell him "It was a mistake that you did" ?
I can't imagine one that does have the human conscience to be concluding that drugs are a grave mistake, no matter how selfish, can't implement their conscious behavior into telling to at least someone they care about that what they did (using drugs, esp destroying themselves) was wrong or damaging to the/their health. And selfishness, saying you don't care about others, including yourself is still robotic and inhumane. I mean, you certainly must care somehow about your own being to a degree, of your health, for in spite your poor relationship with your parents and maybe other problems which I won't claim to know, you haven't used drugs, esp you haven't abused them to destroy yourself, even though you say you don't care about whether you're dead or alive/you wished you weren't born....which is horrible, depressive, but that's not the thread for it. Bottom line, you care about yourself to a certain degree, esp since you're feeding your mind and time with lots of information, which you very much enjoy to do. You enjoy to read, you enjoy to learn, thus you live, thus you somehow care about your mind, at least, of your living to a degree, (because you were born and you can't unborn yourself), if not, you would've thrown in the towel altogether. You've cared enough not to give in to drugs and become a weak being, at least so far, and maybe feel some pride inside, for despite your problems, you are strong.
But, in short, I'm asking you what would you if your closest friend (if you don't have any, say one you truly love, which it can't be it ain't anyone), your brother (if you care about him) used drugs for the first time, after purchasing them legally, and got addicted and irreparably damaged/dead?
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If a loved one died from an overdose/or from medications that interracted badly with each other, though he didn't tried to take his own life, but he sunk in that because of Endless problems in his life, and because others things he tried, therapy, Whatever, Failed to help him feel better (say he was suffering from severe ongoing back pains for whom only meth would help ease those terrible pains, for back pains are excruciating), would you feel sympathy/empathy for that person, since, again, Nothing helped relieve his many serious issues? Supposing he tried everything, conventional or not, and his pain-killers only worked for him for a short while. Would you still call that person an idiot for the above?
Alma said:And I'm still trying to understand how, aside from your plain robotic rationale, you're still saying you are not a selfish person?.. Given all the previous scenarios in this thread about the legalization of drugs? Or careless, indifferent, or plain neutral? No matter what, or is there One human being in this world that you care for (no names needed)? You can say that's irrevelant (sp.), but I'd still like to know.
An overdose implies misuse of medications, hence going past the dose--so that would be a choice, and very much their fault. As for having a cocktail of drugs--it would be whoever prescribed the cocktail's fault. If a doctor prescribed it, he would be at fault. Like I said, it's no secret that it's not a good idea to mix drugs/medications. If the person attempted to self-medicate instead of seeking professional advice, yeah, it's pretty much their fault.
Like I said, I've had a less-than-pleasant life, therapy was by and large a bunch of bollocks in my personal experience (I know others have found it helpful, but that's beside the point)--and yet I never have done a single drug. The only thing I have to say to the people who feel that way, is the same thing I told myself: Get over it. Plain and simple.
As for the meth addict with the back pain--well, legalizing drugs would help his situation because meth would be cheaper.
If nothing else helped him, and he was suffering with so much pain, would he not be better off dead? That's an entirely different question, though. He'd still be an idiot because he'd be frying his brain, thus making an already serious problem even worse, but I still think he has the right to do that. If not feeling the back pain is more important to him than the preservation of his mental faculties, then by all means--he can be my guest and do as much meth as he likes. Like I said, I'm no one to come between anyone and their right to do as they will with their bodies.
Selfishness implies there's something in it for you--some sort of interest, to better your situation, etc. Neutrality would be closer to the mark--because there's nothing in it for me, either way. Therefore, I am neither selfish nor altruistic--the self as a whole is taken out of the equation, thus leaving only neutrality.
And it's a cruel thing....
I'll respond to the bulk of your message in PM form. You heard Sophielo.
I did warn you all !!n but you haven't. Got to stop the conversation, just don't get person, :yes:
Not really. You warned us to not get personal--which I don't believe either I or Alma were doing. However, if arguing for the unpopular stance is somehow against bulletin rules or whatever, what can I do? It seems rather pointless to create a thread about something if everyone is forced to either agree or be silenced.
Talk about it by all means just dont use bad language:no: