Re: [Discussion] Wade Robson files claim of sexual abuse against MJ-Estate
You hit the nail on the head here. Any other kid, (or not even a kid-any person)who is in love with the person they're describing, and then they just throw you over for another kid, you realize you're not special after all, would be full of HATE and REVENGE. And they would have been trying to get it in 2005!!
It's the jealousy and love angle that makes it devastating.
Children are very jealous, just over the attention their parents give their siblings.
And this thing only works if they believed it was them alone with a secret special relationship with MJ. That's how abuser's operate in making victims think it's "real" and "love". If they think it's just them, then it's true, because obviously he's going out of his way just for one specific person.
It just doesn't work if we believe they knew at the time there were dozens of others, that they weren't special, that they were heartbroken at the abandonment, and then all these horrible things happened, and they bore him no will and weren't devastated emotionally by it all.
I would've expected lawsuits and horrible things to come out in the 90s from them just out of revenge, in the way that all those Tiger Woods girls came out all together when they realized there were so many others.
And really you can try and claim this "I loved him I thought it was real I bore him no ill will" angle was there for one of them... but we're talking dozens of potential victims here. If MJ was an abuser it would mean every single one managed to not experience trauma as it happened. That all of them got through school and life fine for decades just fine as it happened. That includes Jordan and Gavin.
There's a reason why some became obsessed recently with Corey Feldman being a victim, and Macaulay Culkin, because Corey went in and out of rehab as a teen/adult around those years, and Macaulay has looked rough a few years back, and that obviously to them would be someone with trauma.
And yet neither are victims... instead we get people who had idyllic family lives, happily married to one person for years, good careers, no drug issues, no weird behaviours.
Is there any abuser in the world who did the acts alleged - rape, degrading acts, child porn, court cases where all of this was dragged through the public eye, threats to their lives and careers, became obsessed with sexually abusing their babies = and none experienced trauma at the time, didn't drop out to do hard drugs or have suicide attempts, and all bore him no ill will?
It's as though all of them would fit into the world Victor Gutierrez dreams of, where pedophilia is legalized because it's not considered bad or traumatic or harmful. I mean MJ would be the poster child of that. He managed to put these kids through everything, dozens of kids likely, and not one experienced any trauma at the time. It was only 20 years later they realized it was wrong because they saw things on the TV or because a prophecy failed, not because they were actually traumatized at the time. Only pedophiles have this viewpoint. Real victims don't experience this shit and feel great as it's happening, nor would they still be ambivalent about it all later on when they recognize the damage it did to them.
