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Did MJ Find Love In The Dark (continued)

Sdeidjs said:
Goodness Gracious Ladies & Gents...with NO disrespect intended to anyone...

Mr. Jackson IS a MAN...a human being just like ANY other MAN...and in my opinion, I am sure that he has had "many" opportunities with women...

That's all fine and good...but there comes a time in ones life...that we ALL realize that woman and or men (which ever end we are on) are like fish...one leaves...there will always be another to take that place...

However, there comes a time in each our lives...that we "all" search for THAT "special one"...

Check It out...Another Great Dance Tune...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5yqmZ4T7dFI

:punk:Rock On Ladies & Gents...Rock On~~~
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Exactly! When MJ says he has searched this whole world, people should not think that he was not doing some sort of interviewing....if you know what I'm saying.

Men go through a certain selection process. They want what they want. Especially, if they are looking for one woman to stay with until they grow old.

MJ, like most men, has had more than a handful of women over the years and that should not shock any of the female fans here. If any of the ladies here really believe all single men are 100% single when you meet them, you are only fooling yourselves. They can't do that. You will be fooling yourselves more than they are, if you go into a relationship thinking that.

Until they know for sure you are the one for them, they will briefly hold on to the others just in case it doesn't work out. They do not want to be 100% without.

Now, if you just happen to be the one that they were looking for, then yes, they will make that sacrafice and let go of those they were with, but the majority of the time when you first meet those men, they have friends. Or as MJ calls them, lover friends. That's just how it goes.
 
queen g said:
My goodness, ALLforMJ, I'm beginning to wonder if you are on Michael Jackson's personal payroll and that's what's behind you being so diligent to get this particular thing about him and women drilled into us. :lol:
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Heck naw I'm not on Mike's payroll. It's just that some are entering a thread that has a discussion going on in it that they really can't handle. And rather than accept the fact that they clearly hear him singing about how much he loves being with women through the night until the day, some that are entering this thread are acting like they do not hear what he's saying. They come in saying things like he's only happy with dreams and stuff like that.

That man is happy dreaming while he is sleeping in a woman's arms. They hear him saying he doesn't like being alone at night. Well if he's saying that, doesn't that mean he's going to be trying to do something about it?

They should let that man have a love life. If they aren't able to be there handling the situation for him, just know that someone is. He can't put that off. It's not like he's cartoon character that's stuck in a television. He's a real man that has a real life and life does go on.
 
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AllForMJ said:
Exactly! When MJ says he has searched this whole world, people should not think that he was not doing some sort of interviewing....if you know what I'm saying.

Men go through a certain selection process. They want what they want. Especially, if they are looking for one woman to stay with until they grow old.

MJ, like most men, has had more than a handful of women over the years and that should not shock any of the female fans here. If any of the ladies here really believe all single men are 100% single when you meet them, you are only fooling yourselves. They can't do that. You will be fooling yourselves more than they are, if you go into a relationship thinking that.

Until they know for sure you are the one for them, they will briefly hold on to the others just in case it doesn't work out. They do not want to be 100% without.

Now, if you just happen to be the one that they were looking for, then yes, they will make that sacrafice and let go of those they were with, but the majority of the time when you first meet those men, they have friends. Or as MJ calls them, lover friends. That's just how it goes.
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I know exactly what you are saying...My philosophy on dating...quite frankly I could "care less" if one is the President of the United States, a King, considered the wealthiest human being in the world, or a blue collar worker...In essence...bottom line... "THAT' works both ways..!
 
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queen g said:
But ALLforMJ, why can't we let some visit the thread that do not want to think MJ is that way? What does it really matter? It harms no one, and the thread can just move on.
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Not to invade with your respose to AllForMJ...

I have been a part of Mr.Jacksons world for decades as a great admirer...I have seen "many" fans come and go...

Quote: What does it really matter? It harms no one

What does it really matter..? What about harm to Mr.Jackson..?

So many put him on such pedestal...we as a society tend to forget Mr.Jackson is "NOT" a saint...he IS truly a REAL "human being" with flaws just like the rest of us...he is NOT perfect as we make him out to be..!

Mr.Jackson has given "so much" of his life to the world...

I ask...

Why is it that society will "not" allow him to be the human being that he is..?

Why is it that society desires for him to something or someone he is not..?

I for one feel there is something totally "wrong" with that picture...let Mr.Jackson be true to his heart...allow him to be a "real" human being and "stop" trying to make him into something or someone he is not..!
 
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queen g said:
But here, Sdeidjs, we are discussing individuals, those that ALLforMJ has decribed as ones who are having a problem with MJ being in love. I say it is okay if they are having a problem with his being in love (if that is really what is going on).

There are no points being given out to those here in this thread that are fine with his being in love or having women in the past. And no one loses points if they do not want to think that. There is not a reward system going on. No one has to go up to bat for MJ and prove anything for him in this area. I have faith that he himself is secure in it.

Just allow those to view him as they like as long as they are respectful in their posts in this thread.
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We are all entitled to our opinions, thoughts and feelings...

With no disrepect intended to any one...lets truly "think"...and try "NOT" to be so "blinded" by our own light..!

:angel:Knowledge Is Growth~~~
 
i agree with those who said that fans has to accept the fact that MIKE IS A MAN:yes: and he is craving love just like any other human in this world.:better::wub:

they have to accept that he needs love:wub: and in order to get love he needs someone in his life and since he is into woman i guess he will be with a woman. :wub:its just human nature and WE AS FANS needs to accept that. :yes:

mike is not a toy or a cartoon person HE IS REALL:yes: he has needs just like any other human.:yes: he cant live alone just because some fans cant accept him with anyone.:no:

we as fans have to accept that we are only fans to him he loves us as fans :wub: and he talled us that many many times :wub: BUT WE ARE FANS.

and at the end of the day he needs someone he can trust someone to love him unconditionaly just as he is. :wub:

so fans has to learn they are just fans and he is HUMAN :yes:

i dont mean to be rude or mean to anyone :no: i am sorry if i camed accross as that i didnt mean it :no:.
 
oooo kayyyy...

well it's been like 12 pages or so since last i posted...and in that time...

i went swimming in popcorn (thanks mp, i do love popcorn, btw), got butter, caramel, chocolate, AND sour cream in my hair...

laughed my head off while you guys threw popcorn all over the place (who's gonna clean up that mess, anyway? lol i don't care, i'll join you!)...

got a leeeetle bit of a red face whilst you talked about michael's sex life and all his women...

and now, i am here! *sneaks to throw pieces of popcorn at Sdeidjs, allformj, sos, moddie, queen g, linda, and a couple others that are lurking tonight*

oops sorry, don't mean to tak this back off topic AGAIN ;)

ANYWAY, i was going to make a relevant post but since i had to do all that it's just going to have to wait because i HAVE to get to bed. sorry everyone! at least i didn't just up and disappear on you AGAIN.

oh a song just went through my head..."wake up, pretty susie, wake up! wake up, pretty susie, wake up!" ;) don't ask me what that is about. it is LATE. i can say whatever i want, right? right.
 
AllForMJ said:
He acts like most guys. Until I saw him do it with my own eyes, I never knew he showed off in front of girls back in the day, but there he was doing it. That walk he did...he did it just because we girls were standing there in a group checkin' him out. Without words, he was basically saying, "Yeah, I'm watching you, while you are watching me. Let me give you a little something to see." He was acting just like a regular dude, not Michael Jackson the superstar, just a regular dude. I'm glad he knew it was okay for him to do that. He needs to be able to just relax sometimes and not worry about it.
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:lol: did he do that?! So cute when guys show of like that.. They just love to do exactly as you described right there. And it's adorable..
I bet those fan-girls screamed and fainted and everything, if he litterally almost flirted with all of them :D haha..

But I'm not in doubt that he knows that it's ok to act that way. Michael have always been the one speaking about him (and other stars) being of flesh and blod and with a heart that beats and so on, so I think he's very focused on he's rights to live as normal human being.
 
Sdeidjs said:
Not to invade with your respose to AllForMJ...

I have been a part of Mr.Jacksons world for decades as a great admirer...I have seen "many" fans come and go...

Quote: What does it really matter? It harms no one

What does it really matter..? What about harm to Mr.Jackson..?

So many put him on such pedestal...we as a society tend to forget Mr.Jackson is "NOT" a saint...he IS truly a REAL "human being" with flaws just like the rest of us...he is NOT perfect as we make him out to be..!

Mr.Jackson has given "so much" of his life to the world...

I ask...

Why is it that society will "not" allow him to be the human being that he is..?

Why is it that society desires for him to something or someone he is not..?

I for one feel there is something totally "wrong" with that picture...let Mr.Jackson be true to his heart...allow him to be a "real" human being and "stop" trying to make him into something or someone he is not..!
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beautifull words Sdeidjs :yes::clapping:
 
Safira said:
:lol: did he do that?! So cute when guys show of like that.. They just love to do exactly as you described right there. And it's adorable..
I bet those fan-girls screamed and fainted and everything, if he litterally almost flirted with all of them :D haha..

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Id watch mj do that anyday! lol
Id flirt with him right bck ;) :p
 
AllForMJ said:
Exactly! When MJ says he has searched this whole world, people should not think that he was not doing some sort of interviewing....if you know what I'm saying.
Men go through a certain selection process. They want what they want. Especially, if they are looking for one woman to stay with until they grow old.
MJ, like most men, has had more than a handful of women over the years and that should not shock any of the female fans here. If any of the ladies here really believe all single men are 100% single when you meet them, you are only fooling yourselves. They can't do that. You will be fooling yourselves more than they are, if you go into a relationship thinking that.
Until they know for sure you are the one for them, they will briefly hold on to the others just in case it doesn't work out. They do not want to be 100% without.
Now, if you just happen to be the one that they were looking for, then yes, they will make that sacrafice and let go of those they were with, but the majority of the time when you first meet those men, they have friends. Or as MJ calls them, lover friends. That's just how it goes.
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queen g said:
But ALLforMJ, why can't we let some visit the thread that do not want to think MJ is that way? What does it really matter? It harms no one, and the thread can just move on.
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Sdeidjs said:
Not to invade with your respose to AllForMJ...
I have been a part of Mr.Jacksons world for decades as a great admirer...I have seen "many" fans come and go...
Quote: What does it really matter? It harms no one
What does it really matter..? What about harm to Mr.Jackson..?
So many put him on such pedestal...we as a society tend to forget Mr.Jackson is "NOT" a saint...he IS truly a REAL "human being" with flaws just like the rest of us...he is NOT perfect as we make him out to be..!
Mr.Jackson has given "so much" of his life to the world...
I ask...
Why is it that society will "not" allow him to be the human being that he is..?
Why is it that society desires for him to something or someone he is not..?
I for one feel there is something totally "wrong" with that picture...let Mr.Jackson be true to his heart...allow him to be a "real" human being and "stop" trying to make him into something or someone he is not..!
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queen g said:
But here, Sdeidjs, we are discussing individuals, those that ALLforMJ has decribed as ones who are having a problem with MJ being in love. I say it is okay if they are having a problem with his being in love (if that is really what is going on).
There are no points being given out to those here in this thread that are fine with his being in love or having women in the past. And no one loses points if they do not want to think that. There is not a reward system going on. No one has to go up to bat for MJ and prove anything for him in this area. I have faith that he himself is secure in it.
Just allow those to view him as they like as long as they are respectful in their posts in this thread.
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I'm only saying that we all should keep in mind that we DON'T KNOW Michael. We don't KNOW who or how many girls he has been with, and it's not really our business either. So, it's possible he's had loads...just as well as it's possible he has not have that many...or that he's had a couple...it could be ANY number. Fact is, we don't know. And since NONE of us really knows...none of us should talk about what he is like like it was a fact. So that being said, if someone wants to think MJ's been around, that's their decision, just like if someone thinks he hasn't been around THAT much. That's their decision. I know there are all kinds of fans with all kinds of opinions and fantasies about Michael. Some think he's a player and sleeps around, some think he's a saint and some think he's just a normal person who may have had a few relationships. Anyways, all I am saying, that no matter what one's PERSONAL opinion about what Michael (and his love life) is like...it's just that: a personal opinion and their guess. None of us knows for sure. Just as much as some here would want to see him as a guy who runs after every woman,or as a saint, or as whatever... there's a possibility he isn't that way. Fact is, we don't KNOW. That's all I'm saying. He could be loving women, but be gentleman enough to not run after each girl. Doesn't make one "less of a man", does it? Anything's possible and it's not really our place to judge what way is right for him or what way he should be. That's all I'm trying to say. Anyone know what I mean? As long as I personally don't know him and am not involved with him in any kind of way, I don't really care who and how many girls he dates, as long as he is happy. All I am saying is, we shouldn't say he is a certain way, when we don't know...and it's not our business really either. But that's just my opinon. *shrugs*
 
Again, I have to agree with you summer. Great post. Also, I don't think Michael is perfect as others pointed out. It's funny how some people jump to conclusions when you simply say what they post are possibilities not necessarily facts because they do not know MJ. Anyway, move on to the next phase ...



summer said:
I'm only saying that we all should keep in mind that we DON'T KNOW Michael. We don't KNOW who or how many girls he has been with, and it's not really our business either. So, it's possible he's had loads...just as well as it's possible he has not have that many...or that he's had a couple...it could be ANY number. Fact is, we don't know. And since NONE of us really knows...none of us should talk about what he is like like it was a fact. So that being said, if someone wants to think MJ's been around, that's their decision, just like if someone thinks he hasn't been around THAT much. That's their decision. I know there are all kinds of fans with all kinds of opinions and fantasies about Michael. Some think he's a player and sleeps around, some think he's a saint and some think he's just a normal person who may have had a few relationships. Anyways, all I am saying, that no matter what one's PERSONAL opinion about what Michael (and his love life) is like...it's just that: a personal opinion and their guess. None of us knows for sure. Just as much as some here would want to see him as a guy who runs after every woman,or as a saint, or as whatever... there's a possibility he isn't that way. Fact is, we don't KNOW. That's all I'm saying. He could be loving women, but be gentleman enough to not run after each girl. Doesn't make one "less of a man", does it? Anything's possible and it's not really our place to judge what way is right for him or what way he should be. That's all I'm trying to say. Anyone know what I mean? As long as I personally don't know him and am not involved with him in any kind of way, I don't really care who and how many girls he dates, as long as he is happy. All I am saying is, we shouldn't say he is a certain way, when we don't know...and it's not our business really either. But that's just my opinon. *shrugs*
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summer said:
I'm only saying that we all should keep in mind that we DON'T KNOW Michael. We don't KNOW who or how many girls he has been with, and it's not really our business either. So, it's possible he's had loads...just as well as it's possible he has not have that many...or that he's had a couple...it could be ANY number. Fact is, we don't know. And since NONE of us really knows...none of us should talk about what he is like like it was a fact. So that being said, if someone wants to think MJ's been around, that's their decision, just like if someone thinks he hasn't been around THAT much. That's their decision. I know there are all kinds of fans with all kinds of opinions and fantasies about Michael. Some think he's a player and sleeps around, some think he's a saint and some think he's just a normal person who may have had a few relationships. Anyways, all I am saying, that no matter what one's PERSONAL opinion about what Michael (and his love life) is like...it's just that: a personal opinion and their guess. None of us knows for sure. Just as much as some here would want to see him as a guy who runs after every woman,or as a saint, or as whatever... there's a possibility he isn't that way. Fact is, we don't KNOW. That's all I'm saying. He could be loving women, but be gentleman enough to not run after each girl. Doesn't make one "less of a man", does it? Anything's possible and it's not really our place to judge what way is right for him or what way he should be. That's all I'm trying to say. Anyone know what I mean? As long as I personally don't know him and am not involved with him in any kind of way, I don't really care who and how many girls he dates, as long as he is happy. All I am saying is, we shouldn't say he is a certain way, when we don't know...and it's not our business really either. But that's just my opinon. *shrugs*
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I really agree with you summer and I think many of the people you quote also agrees with you.

This is what is so dangerous about this analyzing of he's songs!

I think what everyone needs to remember, nomatter if they know someone in the industry or whatever - We're only wondering, guessing, having fun. We only THINK we know what he meens. I suppose that if any of us had Michael in our lives as a personal or professional friend - we would'nt be in this thread. At least - we would not try to go into detailts about this part of he's life. As a friend of a person you either know about their privat life or you don't WANT to know.

However - to be able to use our brainy skills :)P) in this thread is a gift, and we should all see it in an unserious perspective. Ofcourse the subject is serious, but we can't conclude anything so lets just have fun together and let members of mjjc tell their own idea's and interprentions of Michaels songs.
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well, i am tending to agree with summer on this thing. poking around in someone else's personally intimate life...in THAT way...i don't think michael would appreciate that so much. it's disrespectful and dishonoring. sorry to bust anyone's bubble, but it is. why don't we move on from that, hmmm?

anymore music interpretations, anyone? allformj, you have been doing a good job. i await more.
 
I agree - the discussion went over the top at one point :)

I KNOW that we all just talk about this out of love and the need to understand our idol in a deeper way. I've only met such good people here on this forum!

So lets leave that behind and be nice and friendly now :yes:
 
It's good you agree & we can leave the snide comments behind now too. :)

MimiK said:
well, i am tending to agree with summer on this thing. poking around in someone else's personally intimate life...in THAT way...i don't think michael would appreciate that so much. it's disrespectful and dishonoring. sorry to bust anyone's bubble, but it is. why don't we move on from that, hmmm?

anymore music interpretations, anyone? allformj, you have been doing a good job. i await more.
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Agreed, lets move on. :)

By the way, I appreciate your posts queen g. :)

Safira said:
I agree - the discussion went over the top at one point :)

I KNOW that we all just talk about this out of love and the need to understand our idol in a deeper way. I've only met such good people here on this forum!

So lets leave that behind and be nice and friendly now :yes:
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Hi Everybody, been trying to play catch up with the lastest post in here.

Where's my MJbabe21?

queen, thank you sooo much for the compliment. you are a sweetheart.
 
Moddie777 said:
Hi Everybody, been trying to play catch up with the lastest post in here.

Where's my MJbabe21?

queen, thank you sooo much for the compliment. you are a sweetheart.
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hahaha Im right here. lol yeah i've been falling behind on this thread!! :(
So has anyone intrepreted his new clothes yet? There are a lot of interesting things on his shirt recently.
 
MJbabe21 said:
hahaha Im right here. lol yeah i've been falling behind on this thread!! :(
So has anyone intrepreted his new clothes yet? There are a lot of interesting things on his shirt recently.
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There you are!! Haven't seen you in a while. Ya' know you should drop a line or two in this thread just to let us know, you are still among us, I was getting concerned.

What clothes, what have I missed, anybody got the exact date and pic?
 
Sdeidjs said:
I love Stevie Wonder...

Check It Out This IS A Good One and fits perfectly in this thread...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zO2-kIqsGL4

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I also love Stevie Wonder. :wild: He has an incredible voice and sings with soul and heart as well as Michael.:wub: I love that one day he and Michael work together again and it would be amazing if Stevie produce an album of Michael, would be a perfect partnership of two great artists together. :D​

P.S. Thanks for the wonderful video... perfect! :)​
 
ashtanga said:
I also love Stevie Wonder. :wild: He has an incredible voice and sings with soul and heart as well as Michael.:wub: I love that one day he and Michael work together again and it would be amazing if Stevie produce an album of Michael, would be a perfect partnership of two great artists together. :D​
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I wholeheartly Agree...Amazing~~~

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