I don't know why people so worked up over his comments on Madonna and women in general.
I actually found the Madonna thing hilarous because I can picture those two (who had absolutely nothing in common) on their "date". LOL! And IMO Michael is totally right about her! She was not a classy lady and she not his type at all! Why should he say otherwise?
I think Madonna is intelligent enough to laugh about these comments now. She knows there's at least some truth in it and she also remembers she too made some nasty comments on Michael in public (and we don't know what kind of comments she made on him in private) and she was amongst those who abandoned him as she put it in her MTV speech. So this is just the equalizer. I think Madonna can take it like this and laugh about it. BTW, her spokesperson already made a comment saying no matter what's in that book they won't affect Madonna's feelings about Michael.
As for women in general. I found that part incredibly interesting. It gives us an insight into why Michael never had a long-lasting stable relationship: it was not that he was not interested in women (no man who is not interested in woman feels tempted by what women have between their legs
), as the media often thought, but it was the trust issue. He said women manipulate men with the thing they have between their legs. Honestly, again, in the world he was living in it was simply the truth! Hollywood is full of women who would use their sexuality to advance their career or to take advantage on men. That's what Michael saw all his life from women! Starting with his first and probably biggest crush/love, Diana Ross. He loved that woman dearly but at the same time he wasn't blind or stupid. He knew Diana slept with Berry Gordy to advance her career when Gordy was married and Diana was about to get married to another man. Michael knew that and still couldn't help himself lusting after her. So I think he decidied in his heart that women are like that and women have control over men by their sexuality and poor men can't help themselves about that. Michael himself experienced it the most with Diana, IMO. He couldn't help himself, couldn't stop loving her, even though he knew what kind of woman she was.
In the book he makes Lewinsky responsible for the Clinton sex scandal and he also makes Delilah responsible for Samson's downfall in the Bible story. It's always just the woman. In his mind men are victims of women who are manipulating them with their sexuality. (BTW, I cannot say he doesn't have a point about that. Let's be honest: it's very often the case! Even when we look at great kings and emperors in history, often it turns out they were manipulated from the background by their wives.)