people always trend to be selfish(such as ask the other side love more than self, such as ask more self-protection and ask the other side more open heart.......)
no exception be-in-love(whatever you call it true-love or others else), it's a lasting-fighting forever on everything. it means, when you were in a love, you need to accept this type of challenge that came from both sides---yourself and other side......
.....................................so what? go and fight!
love is worth existing even if in such a fighting.
the fighting never can deny being's urgent request of love, and love didnt mean the fight would disappear automatically. just accept all the challenge because you dare to love deeper---------good excises for you, your mind & spirit! come and across, you find a more ideal self because of winning the challenges
in front of every love, there was a volcano & ice-sea(coming from the deepest of human nature) that you need to over come/across, then win. yeah, it was just so hard, most time people stop as soon as they feel the terrible heat or coldness, or drowning in sea before they reached the bank, or destroyed by the heat(yes sometimes people might go crime for love)............... people got all kinds of things from the love-travels: embers, stong-heart, blood.......
but they just cant help falling in love once more--------------no other choice, human being is such a mental animal, you just cant live only with food, you also need love. so........... since it was inescapable, why not try your best to do? try the best to do, and find the gold while you fighting with the volcano and ice-sea, even though you cant get this love, at least you wont never fail in digging-gold-character in this love-travel if you do try your best without fears and always being creative... much better than finally you would be invovled in love once more even if you bear all the fears/self-protection... and then you might get double-fail in love & self-value
wow just go ahead people. love never only mean easy-candy, lazy-candy, it also means digging-gold while you need to go through the volcano and ice-sea.
yeah i myself do think it was a good thing------goooood setting from GOD, and good for ourselves---finally our life need to be spend in some way: sometimes lying on easy-bed, sometimes work hard in sunshine........ etc.
plus:
the thoughts above has an precondition---you are in love, you have the motor, or you still keep the motor.
the thoughts is about how to use your motor while facing all the hurdles in your real life.
above is 1st part.
it wasnt suitable for those sad status that love had lost totally or had transfered to other person.
about those sad status, about those people had lost love... well it's another part, the 2nd part we gonna talk about, it's another difficult part we need to face and work out in our life. even if myself(i do think i own a lot powers on handling the abstract stuffs) stayed in the status that love had lost, i had lost the feeling the motor that i had felt for sb. after heart-breaking again and again, then what i can do was to turn around and try to keep far away from him
(be watchful, the key in this sentence is "love had lost", not "heart-breaking"... hmmm the "heart-breaking" in this sentence belongs to the 1st part, and the "love had lost" in this sentence belongs to the 2nd part).
yeah, so many challenges in life, it's really not easy, isnt it??
before you work out the both, you had to tell the both stuffs at the first place----------wow how hard again!
as of what's the function of love/feeling love... it's the 3rd part, different from the 1st part(how the love-motor work) and 2nd part(how to handle when love had lost). about the 3rd part we had talked a lot, in one simple word, it's the spirit-food of us(the-mental-creature), we are human being, we cant live only with food, and the motor inner can lead us to make 1 miracle after another miracle, and you cant do that without the powerful motor.
