Reghead121
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In a fit of anger, I accused my ex boyfriend of being gay, that was 4 years ago, and I still regret it to this day. I think sometimes we go thru so many ranges of emotions when we break up with someone/divorce and we speak before thinking or don't want to "appear" a certain way, so I actually feel bad for LMP. I can understand her pain, then and now.
I know what you mean. I said some pretty bad stuff about my ex-husband after we divorced....
But with time that anger fades. It's just a phase you go through when you end a marriage I think. It's the way life is.
If Billy (my ex) had died, without us having become friends again after years of working on it and apologies on both sides... I think I would have been absolutely devestated.
I really sympathize with her. She's probably tearing herself apart about it. Compound that with the fact her dad died in a similar fashion? She probably blames herself. Honestly, I think I'd about want to die. I hope she'll be okay.