But we wish that something more was done by those who had the opportunity to do so.
However, it is our feeling that when someone is in trouble and you have the opportunity to help them you try to do so and don't simply look the other way because it is not your responsibility to make sure they are alright.
Sandy,
If you read my previous posts I have said that I understand where you are coming from and I believe that what you have written in your testimonies are truthful. I have no reason to doubt your integrity and heart.
However I have some problems with the especially above statements.
1. You assume that people looked the other way and did nothing.
- okay You were around Michael but not 24/7. How do you know that nobody said nothing? Now we hear Kenny putting food before him, giving him food, reminding him to rest. Travis giving him shakes. Randy hiring people to remind Mj to eat etc. If these all happened it means that people did not look the other way, they showed their concerns.
2. What more could - should they have done?
- As I understand even if they have done the above listed things , it is not enough for you they should have done something more. But COULD they really do something more, perhaps that is the most important question.
- In your letter to Michael (and to Karen as well) you question if it is your position to say these things - Couldn't it be the same thing for other people as well? They may know and work for MJ but I don't think that means that they are his best friends. They might feel like it's not their place as well and even if they did say something MJ simply could fire them.
- In all your letters all of you are all saying stuff like "please dont get me wrong", " I say this because I love you" and a lot of "please". You are not basically confronting MJ saying that he has a problem, just in a friendly and loving way beg him to look after himself. Can't the other people also have tried a softer approach like yours to reach to him?
3. Then the most confusing thing is Marika's statement "
As we all know, Michael listen to no one. He does whatever he wants."
- Okay once again if you ALL KNOW this , then I am completely lost in regards of what you want or expect. This means that all the people around MJ could say, warn, beg him until they are purple in the face and he would do whatever he wants. If you know that this people are as powerless as any of us, why putting the burden/blame on these people?
4. I think the whole thing "if it was 10 concerts or AEG cancelled the concerts he would be allright" idea.
- I personally find this quite far fetched as well.
Why you ask
1) 50 or 10 or even 1 show the rehersal amount workload stress etc will be the same. If he died on the 11th concert then you would have a point then we could argue that AEG overworked him. But in regards of rehersals I don't think Michael would work 1/5 of what he was working just because he had the 1/5 number of concerts (50 versus 10)
2) then there's the assumption that "he was using propofol because of the concerts if they weren't happening he would not use it". Well we simply do not know whether this is true or not. It is well known that MJ had eating and sleeping problems starting 1992 - Elizabeth Taylor feeding him and him having an anesthesiologist travelling with him during Dangerous tour is very common knowledge. So sorry I really cannot see "big bad wolf AEG forced these concerts on him and therefore he developed these issues as recent as this MAY" logic.
Anyway I hope thay you'll take the time to respond or at least reach to me privately.
Love and respect.