The clip of Katherine hurts to see. The pain of losing Michael is still there and I don't think that will go away. I think about him everyday and I miss him too. I haven't always agreed with her choices but it's hard for a mother to see her child go before her.
Marebear sometimes I think that if Katherine accepts the fact that Muarry's negligence caused Michael's death, then she would have less torment. To me, it is that uncertainty that is tearing her apart. She has allowed others to make her think that it is partly Muarry, then it is AEG, then Michael was healthy, then Michael was sickly and did not know what was going on--these conflicting stories are tearing at the emotions and keep her in torment.
I am not saying that the death of her son is not a source of tremendous grief to her, but in her mind she needs that closure of understanding who exactly caused her son's death. Someone put the idea in her mind that it is AEG, a group of others, so of course under this situation how can this mother find peace. I blame the members who makes her believe that others are to be blamed--those who talk about having evidence that never came about.
About the brothers responses, maybe they feel that if they do not go in-depth about questions about molestation, then they wouldn't be asked about them anymore, so they give these weak responses. Also, they want to be accepted as the OK brothers, so although they do not want to see people talk bad about Michael, another part of them want to be accepted by the public and media.
These answers about Joe will always be the same. Joe is still alive and the boys do not want to talk bad about him. Also, they
really believe that what Joe did was not bad, that it was old school, and it did not affect them in their eyes. We have discussed this extensively on this forum.
Liberiangirl actually you can
forgive without
forgetting. The
mind remembers the offense/crime and the
heart/spirit forgives the person. Someone does something terrible to you, and you forgive the
person, but not the
action. This is a very religious and moral teaching and not many people can do it. It is like liking the person but disagreeing with the behavior the person is engaged in. It also helps if the person who committed the crime says he is sorry--something Muarry did not do.