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LindaC781...thank you so much for your love and support.
I've never heard of these relaxation tapes, and i doubt it will help my mother because everything related with those kind of exercices to relax,makes my mother feel worst.Doctor says it is due to her tyroid problem.
But i saved te links you mention,and i will for sure try.
As for the Reiki Masters,i have no idea what it is or if we have it here.i will try to find out.
Again i saved the link you gave me and i will try to find time to read about it.Thank you for everything.

Silouette...you are very kind...I worry and pray from Dom too.thank you
 
Mariajoaosilva said:
LindaC781...thank you so much for your love and support.
I've never heard of these relaxation tapes, and i doubt it will help my mother because everything related with those kind of exercices to relax,makes my mother feel worst.Doctor says it is due to her tyroid problem.
But i saved te links you mention,and i will for sure try.
As for the Reiki Masters,i have no idea what it is or if we have it here.i will try to find out.
Again i saved the link you gave me and i will try to find time to read about it.Thank you for everything.

Silouette...you are very kind...I worry and pray from Dom too.thank you
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MariaJoSilva - I know, this must be a very scary time for you. But you need to be strong for your Mom. Help her to relax, just to get some needed rest before her operation. Try not to think of too many things that *may* happen in the future...think about one thing at a time right now. To think about anything more than that will be overwhelming for you and stressful.

Remember, you are not going through this time in your life alone - we are all here for you. Believe me.
 
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...........................My heart and thoughts are with you both,Maria,Mother and Dom!!!:yes::better:
 
Carol...thankyou so so much for all the prayers and support.

Just the idea that next thrursday can be the end of everything....

My mother will have her biopsy next thursday,29th,and if all goes well,she will be operated on friday 30th.

I was never so scared in my life...if only i could do something to make her feel better...
 
Hey now Maria... Let's hope the biopsy will show no cancer and that the surgery will go great.. I know it's hard to stay positive.. I know it's a struggle.. but you have to stay positive... We are right here with you.. Keep us updated.. U are both in my thoughts and prayers.. always.. xxx
 
Cass,Linda,and all of you:
I can't thank you so enough for your love and support.
Unfortunately,i am with other problem now,that i hope it will be solved tomorrow,wednesday.My computer got a virus that destroyed the windows system,and right now a friend of mine is downloading windows to see if tomorrow she can go to my home and help me having a computer that right now i miss it a lot,because of my mother's surgery and biopsy that is coming so fast...
I will do my best to update you on everything.
Thank you so so much.
God bless you all
 
First of all i must say that i stilldon't have my computer working.
If i can be here now,it's because of a an amazing friend i have,that some of you know her,named Ana,also known as Emyrean Dancer,that is letting me have her portatible for the weekend,while she is also fixing my computer.
Ok...What happened today and the past days...As you can imagine,my mother was,is,very scared and anxious and becuse of it,she has been having more trouble to sleep.
Today we went to the hospital early in the morning,and she made her biopsy,in the middle of the afternoon.Depending on how she spends the night,howhe blood pressure will be during this night and tomorrow morning,doctors decide if she makes her eye surgery or not.
When i left her,at almost 9pm,she was sleepy.Nurse said that because of my mother's aneurism,they had to take extra cautions,so being sleepy is a good sign.
All i know for now is that the doctor says that the biopsy went well,and that next week we can have the results.
Now i just pray that the eye surgery can be done.But all i want is what is better to my mother,so if she can't have the eye surgery tomorrow,i don't mind.I prefer to wait and be sure that she is well.
I will keep you updated when i can.
Thank you all so so much for everything.
I'm living the worst nightmare of my life,and without all of you,i uld have gone crazy for a long time now.
God Bless all of you and your hearts.You are the best friends and family someone can ask
 
Mariajoaosilva said:
First of all i must say that i stilldon't have my computer working.
If i can be here now,it's because of a an amazing friend i have,that some of you know her,named Ana,also known as Emyrean Dancer,that is letting me have her portatible for the weekend,while she is also fixing my computer.
Ok...What happened today and the past days...As you can imagine,my mother was,is,very scared and anxious and becuse of it,she has been having more trouble to sleep.
Today we went to the hospital early in the morning,and she made her biopsy,in the middle of the afternoon.Depending on how she spends the night,howhe blood pressure will be during this night and tomorrow morning,doctors decide if she makes her eye surgery or not.
When i left her,at almost 9pm,she was sleepy.Nurse said that because of my mother's aneurism,they had to take extra cautions,so being sleepy is a good sign.
All i know for now is that the doctor says that the biopsy went well,and that next week we can have the results.
Now i just pray that the eye surgery can be done.But all i want is what is better to my mother,so if she can't have the eye surgery tomorrow,i don't mind.I prefer to wait and be sure that she is well.
I will keep you updated when i can.
Thank you all so so much for everything.
I'm living the worst nightmare of my life,and without all of you,i uld have gone crazy for a long time now.
God Bless all of you and your hearts.You are the best friends and family someone can ask
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Maria, the resolution to this problem is in a Higher Power now. You and your mom stay in our prayers...
 
Ok...And the thriller i'm living,goes on...
Today my mother was supposed to have her eye sugery...itwould all be decided according to how she would spend the night.Well...My mother was not operated.She was having very high blood pressure in the morning,and if they made a surgery,her aneurism could brust,and she would die.
All this is very well,and i thank the doctor for what he did..What i don´t like...i mean...what i can't understand,is why they sent her home,and recheduled a new appoitment for next monday,if they didn't do a hingto her eye,and when she maybe woud need extra help,is right now!!!
All those things that are happening,left my mother very nervous and anxious and me exausted.
I said the doctors that if something happening during night to my mother,that i would sue them.
If i was scared before,now i am even more because i have no idea how to take care o my mother at this point.
From the hospital all i heard was that they were sorry that they had to do this,but they needed my mom´s bed for a patient that is having a bad flue!!!
My country is going from crazy to nuts everyday.I tell you this,i something happens to my mother tll next monday,the hospital will not like what will do.I had enough.If they don't know what to do or sy,then they better stop and shut up because my mother is not a toy they use to make experiences!
Please excuse me for my language.But i am vey very tired,and most of all,very mad with way my country is right now.
I always said that i was born here by mistake..And believe meit is so true!
When i more news,i wll let you know.
Thank you so so muh for all your patience with me,your love and prayers.If it wasn't all of you i have no idea how i would deal with all this!
 
Here i come again,to update on my mother's appoiment of today.

We had to be in the hospital very early in the morning.It's freezing cold here,and raining a lot lately.My mother had lots of difficulties to go this early,but because it was needed...so there we are in the hospital waiting for the doctor to see my mother,and he takes ages to call her.
We had a lot of questions on our mind.Lots of doubts that we wanted to see clear,but instead we ame out feeling more frustrated,and with th same questions and doubts.Why?Oh well...as crazy as this may seem,when the doctor called my mom,he said that the reason why she wa not having surgery,is because the anestesya they would have to give her,is very strong,so she could die during surgery.
And now i ask...If the doctor knew from the very begining what was the biggest health problem she has,why on earh did he say that he wanted to make this surgery,before her appoitment to do the Angiography??
My mother is very tired and feeling like she is a uselless case,thanks to them!
Cause my mother was not feling feel during aftenoon with headhackes,i had to call my family doctor,and ask her to come here,(almost right after she left my home,cause she came here to pay her a visit).Bless the heart of my family doctor that is an amazing person!It seems that her headhacke,was caused by her nervous system,so my doctor was able to take care of my mother and make her feel better.
But our major problem is that my mom's next appoitment is only in April!!What am i supposed to do in the meantime?
I'm not a doctor!
Can anyone tell me how am i supposed to deal with this?
what should i do?think or feel?It's that right now i have no idea what to think or how to feel with all this anymore.
Thank you all so much for all your love,prayersband support.They mean a lot more than i can describe.
 
awwwwwww, I'm sorry Maria. I do hope that thing get better for you and your family.
We love you. :flowers:
 
MariaJo.....your doctors are there for you...however, if you see something that requires urgent attention, by all means - call them and insist on an appointment.

Here is a relaxation video I found on Youtube. I hope this helps with the anxiety you guys are having...
 
Im so sorry that this nightmare doesn't seem to be getting better for you or your mother. You are being so brave and strong but you must be so tired right now. Your mother is so luck to have you there to give her the support she needs, but you must be careful and remember to look after yourself because if you become ill you wont be able to support your mother. If you are finding it hard to cope or understand your mothers treatment speak to your family doctor and ask for some help with housework etc and also what is happening with your mothers care, what are they hoping to do next etc.
I wish you well and you and your mother are both in my prayers. Take care Maria xx
 
sweet princess...thank you so much for your love and care.HUGS

LindaC781...yes i am under a lot of anxiety...thank you for the video.
Oh be sure i will call the doctors if i think my mother is not well.
She is recovering from a kidney biopsy,so if i notice something different,i will call my family doctor.

Janey...Thank you so much for your kind words.I do all i can for my mother because i loveher more than words can say.I would do anything to save her.I'm already taking care of me somehow.I have an amazing family doctor that is always check on me,and i truly think that if it wasn't her constant help and support,i would be worst than i am,and my mother could be death by now.
Again i want to thank you for your kind words and prayers.It means a lot to me.
 
Latest news;

My mom's biopsy result,comes next friday.

I just pray that she dosen't have anything....I really can't imaging she having cancer. She has so much already! This is exactly what she dosen't needs.
 
maria you are such a great friend to me, and I pray for you and your family everyday! stay strong and thank you for all your kindness and support to me! you are beyond a good friend to me!
 
Mariajoaosilva said:
Latest news;

My mom's biopsy result,comes next friday.

I just pray that she dosen't have anything....I really can't imaging she having cancer. She has so much already! This is exactly what she dosen't needs.
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Let us know asap, Maria. I hope to God the news is good and I pray it will!
 
Mariajoaosilva said:
sweet princess...thank you so much for your love and care.HUGS

LindaC781...yes i am under a lot of anxiety...thank you for the video.
Oh be sure i will call the doctors if i think my mother is not well.
She is recovering from a kidney biopsy,so if i notice something different,i will call my family doctor.

Janey...Thank you so much for your kind words.I do all i can for my mother because i loveher more than words can say.I would do anything to save her.I'm already taking care of me somehow.I have an amazing family doctor that is always check on me,and i truly think that if it wasn't her constant help and support,i would be worst than i am,and my mother could be death by now.
Again i want to thank you for your kind words and prayers.It means a lot to me.
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MariaJo - no need to thank me. I understand. I'd be exactly the same way if it were my Mom. Take care. And know we are all here for you...
 
Thank you Dom,
thank you Cass,
Thank you Linda,
Thank you so so much to all of you that are helping me in the worst time of my life
.I have no idea how i would make it,if it wasn't for all of you.
Just want to tell you all,that God listen to all of us because the result of the biopsy was that my mother dosen't have cancer!
What a relief i feel!
Doctors can't say why she keeps having infections,but it is wonderful that it's not cancer.
Thank you all so so much!
 
Next tuesday i will go to the hospital to talk to my mom's neurocirgeon,to see what it can be done as soon as possible because my mother feels that waiting till April can be too late.

She is loosing her vision and gets very very tired doing whatever and walking.

My mom says that she is slowly dying...i pray she is wrong...but when i see her like this...I really don't know...
 
Mariajoaosilva said:
Thank you Dom,
thank you Cass,
Thank you Linda,
Thank you so so much to all of you that are helping me in the worst time of my life
.I have no idea how i would make it,if it wasn't for all of you.
Just want to tell you all,that God listen to all of us because the result of the biopsy was that my mother dosen't have cancer!
What a relief i feel!
Doctors can't say why she keeps having infections,but it is wonderful that it's not cancer.
Thank you all so so much!
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OMG MariaJo!! That's wonderful!! Now you need to start practicing some relaxation techniques. They will help you remain strong for your mom - believe me!! They work!
 
Thank God. Wonderful news, Maria. I'm so relieved that she does not have cancer. I understand though that your Mom is still a very sick lady though and has a long road ahead of her. Just know I am here for you every step of the way. Hopefully something will be done for your Mom soon and she will start her journey to recovery.
 
LindaC781..I do beliee in you more than you think.
What i do know that helps,is having friends like you.That is something that it means a lot to me and that i want to keep it forever.



cass...My dear cass how i love you so!I'm relieved that my mother does not have cancer,but as you say,she is a very sick person.
I wish i could have hope that my mother could recover,but doctors want me to have my eyes open and acept the reality.
My mom can die from a moment to another,or she can die slowly(as it seems to be happening).
I want you to know taht i am here for you as well.Thank you so so much for everything.HUGS
 
Mariajoaosilva said:
Thank you Dom,
thank you Cass,
Thank you Linda,
Thank you so so much to all of you that are helping me in the worst time of my life
.I have no idea how i would make it,if it wasn't for all of you.
Just want to tell you all,that God listen to all of us because the result of the biopsy was that my mother dosen't have cancer!
What a relief i feel!
Doctors can't say why she keeps having infections,but it is wonderful that it's not cancer.
Thank you all so so much!
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..............Awwwwwwwwww,thats great news!!!!!:D:yes::D
Such a' relief to hear!:D:yes::D
 
I can't thank you all enough for all the love,support and prayers...

You truly are the best friends someone can have.

Just want to tell you all that today i went to see my mom's neurocergeon and she thinks that it is best to wait till april.
The reason why,is because she wants to make another embolization to her brain,and the best time to do it,is when my mother is about to make 3 years that she had her aneurism brusted.If all goes as she wants,my mother's embolization will be sometime in june.
But because my mother keeps saying that she dosen't feel well,that she is seeing worst,i'm going to talk to my family doctor tomorrow and make an appoitment to see if she can do something.
Anyways...in my name and my mother's name,i really want to thank all of you,from the bottom of my heart.
 
MariaJo, I bet your mother thanks her lucky stars to have such a daughter...hang in there...we are all praying for you and your Mom.
 
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