Petrarose
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Who is the "them" hoping? Lisa's kids? If so, apples and oranges.
Chuckling myself as to the Lisa/MJ situation. Mike's statements to Schmu and in interviews make it clear he was aware that Lisa had hoped to reconcile and regretted things. So, not sure why there's a debate here.
Not me but it's interesting you felt the need to throw that out there.
The bolded-- you have a pattern of reading something and reaching grand conclusions. Just because Michael said Lisa was hoping for a reconciliation, it does not mean that because he allowed her to follow him due to his politeness that he was making her think there would be a reconciliation. Some men like me, for example, and want to take me out. I let them know there is not going to be a romantic thing going on. They still go out with me and call me on the phone. You seem to have a Victorian concept of relationships. It is almost as though a woman has no control of her emotions and don't understand that a man's NO means NO or vice versa. (It reminds me of a few centuries back if a man held a woman's hand in public he had to marry her otherwise he would have spoiled her good name.) It seems that you don't understand that many dates/outings/trips are made between parties where one person likes the other one and wants it to be a deeper relationship, while knowing the other party just want a friendship. Lisa knew very well that Michael did not want to remarry and she went hanging out with him anyway. They both knew what was going on so there is no need to blame Michael like you did a few posts above. Lisa has control and is master of her choice to follow Michael, and her destiny. She is not a foolish pre-teen from Victorian times.
This is the last comment I will make to you in this thread since I see you have a type of thinking that I will not follow. Further, I think I have said all I need to say on the subject. So moving right along...