Re: Shumely's Book A Good Read
I read a small portion of the book online.....It was the Ideal Women Chapter.
Reading MJ's quotes & the Rabbi's advice, I can see why the Rabbi had conflicting thoughts & arguments about MJ. He wanted to push his own ideals on Michael and Michael wanted to stay the same. Usually situations like that, don't end on good terms anyway.
I don't know what it is about Virgo men, but my own brother has voiced opinions about women that, if I had feathers....they would be ruffled, lol. My love for MJ is a sisterly love, because I can't help but think of my own brother when I'm reminded of Michael. I swear some of their quirks and things that were done in the past.....Cosmic Twins (Shutting the family out, constantly changing phone numbers, divorced, has an attraction for older women, extravagant spending, his male friends were younger, lots of rumors, having to tell people he wasn't gay etc).....I used to tell people my family was the untalented version of the Jacksons, lol Believe me when I say my 5 brothers can NOT sing and I won't even go there on my younger sister, lmao
Some of MJ's quotes about women and how influential they are on men, I'm sure came from what his perception of how his brothers were treated and how his mom would persuade him to do family stuff.
I agreed with some of the things the Rabbi told MJ about women and how some of us "play" differently from men, but we (women) can still be playful. Whereas, MJ thought most women were always trying to "spoil the fun."
On the other side of the coin though, I understood what MJ was saying here too, because there are times I wince at my husband for being in his thirties and will stay up all night playing computer or video games, but most times, I let him have his fun because he works hard and that is his release....There is a balance to be had and I think that's what very few & genuine people have tried to tell Michael, if he wanted to listen.
I think what the Rabbi was trying to do (at that time, way back when) was try to counsel him and get him to look at things with a different perspective.... And I don't know about some of you, but sometimes when people try to give their "advice" they sometimes turn their advice into the gospel, lol.
Now, I think the Rabbi is using it, currently, to get himself out there as some kind of theraputic figure (and to profit)....But for the people who want to buy, I don't think should be concerned with being deemed as idiots or not true fans or what not... People are genuinely curious about MJ as well as other celebrities.
How many people flipped thru a magazine when the title read that Brad was leaving Angelina or that Jennifer Aniston was still talking to Brad? A fan's curiosity is the curse of the celebrity.
If anything, I can honestly say, after experiencing what happened with MJ, I would NEVER EVER want to be a celebrity or even mildly famous, lol. There's enough drama in my life being plain ole me.