Autumn II
Proud Member
I was responding above both to Victoria's comment that "technically, Prince and Paris are Jewish" and to your points about "selecting" a religion for MJ's children. I consider this point too hot to handle here, so was being as general as possible, and was going to leave it at that. But since I was asked for clarification, I hope I don't get flamed, so here it is:
I don't believe a religion should be selected for children. Until they're of age, it is not a fully voluntary, informed decision on their part, based on a solid understanding of alternative belief systems. It's too important to be anything less. I consider it religion by coercion. I believe instead that children should receive solid ethical instruction, and an overview of the world's beliefs and philosophies.
Some huge percent of the world's religious beliefs can be traced to an individual's parents. If you're born in Saudi Arabia, you're Wahhabi Muslim. In Alabama, Southern Baptist. In India: Hindu or Buddhist. And so forth. Thus each region believes passionately its religion is the true faith; it's ingrained from birth.
I believe when the day comes that religion is viewed as something to be examined thoughtfully and chosen (or rejected) freely as adults, we'll finally begin to approach a more unified, rational and loving world, that has more respect for the independent minds and creativity of its children.
I think it's too big a subject to handle in this thread; I feel very strongly on this point and don't want to see things get tense here.
We should be able to talk about pretty much anything on this board, as long as it remains respectful. Thus far, this thread is a lot more civilized than I thought it would be, soooooo?
Among Jewish people the "matrilinearity" of Judaism is not necessarily agreed upon. And yes, it has to do with ethnicity. Doesn't mean the children are or would be necessarily raised in the Jewish faith, though.
I agree with what you've said, about raising children to be able to choose. I understand that others may feel differently, though. Personally, I'm a Unitarian/Universalist. We have in our church, religious education for children. The education consists of emphasizing the need to be GOOD people, and exposure to the diversity of world-religions. Works for me, and for UU families. . . And, that's exactly what you've said. So. . good.