Janet on the cover of Essence Magazine

Janet had control of her life since she was 18! Isn't that what the album CONTROL was all about?! lol o_O

So, yea I don't get why they act like she just got it! She is in her 40's so i would hope she would be in control and living her life on her own terms!

Something MJ did too! Yet, people always use it against him for some odd reason!

Whatever!
 
she hasn't said a word about seeking justice for MJ.. she blames MJ. I'm sorry but Janet moved on the day after MJ died. I don't know if she's just an uncaring, cold-hearted person but her behavior after MJ's death is just very hurtful to me.
I agree with you, and you speak the truth. :agree:
 
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She's beautiful as always but I'm not too keen on the hair. It makes her look older somehow.
 
Janet has been out and in control for over 25 years why the heck are they still acting like she's just now moving out of Hayvenhurst??

and I agree with the other person.. who cares what Janet's life is like and how happy she is, she should be out there fighting for justice for her brother. How can she be happy with her brother lying in a tomb because he was murdered????

Stacy3...I don't get that either...whatever
 
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the article:

Janet Damita Jo Jackson is a woman with an obvious fondness for the worlds of cameras and make-believe. In our rendention of Before Sunset the veritable triple threat takes a star turn as a stunning socialite on a clandestine rendevous with an impossibly sexy polo player, played by the equally stunning Adam Rodriguez. Why Rodriguez? Well, to understand that you's have to understand where Janet is at this point in her life. " I'm so fortunate," she coos in a voice so honeyed it gives license to use the word mellifluous. "I'm a free agent. I'm not trapped in a contract where I'm unhappy. I'm very free, and I love this feeling. I can do whatever I want."

And what Janet wanted, in this case atleast, was the 35-year-old Bronx Cuban and Butter Rican heartthrob of CSI: Miami fame. When Rodriguez heard Janet had requested him to play her love interest on our shoot, he was beyond flattered. On meeting her, he says she has a "genuine sweetness. It's a beautiful thing to see someone with that kind of lifelong success hold on to something that most people lose so easily when put in the spotlight." Malik Yoba, her costar in both Why did I get married films, echos that sentiment. "Janet is a pleasure to work with," says Yoba. This is one of those compliments that could be considered and innocous throwaway, until you consider the timing: Jackson returned to the set of Why did I get married too? just one day after shouldering the unbearable weight of burying her brother Michael. "She still managed to be really engaging," Yoba states. "She spent a lot of time in her trailer when we weren't on set. And I think, given the circumstances, that's understandable."

These days Jackson is using that legendary work ethic to focus on her acting career. This one's been a little tricky to pull off. Her early TV appearances are seen as a resume glitch-bumps on the road that preceded her more that 20-year stint as a 100 times platinum, multiple award-winning recording artist. Let me put that in context. Jackson's control, Rythm Nation 1814 and Janet. established the singer-dancer imprimatur standard in pop culture we now take for granted.

SO when you're thinking of asking Miss Jackson, "What have you done for me lately?" remember that Briteny, Ciara and Beyonce live in the house that Janet built. But she has since moved on, and that's even more obvious now. With turns in Tyler Perry's why Did I...and it's sequal (which is out this month on DVD/Blu-ray), Janet continues to refine those acting abilities she displayed early on in the tole of the ever affable hood tween Penny on Good times. Next January she shares the screen with heavyweaight talents Kerry Washington and Kimberly Elice in perry's highlt anticipated film adaption of Ntzoke Shangs FCGWHCSWTRIE-otherwise known as the Holy Grail of rites of passage plays for an entire generation of black women. It's a move that finally should reestablish Jackson as what she is: a veteran thespian who also happened to sell more that 100 million records.

Of course, the cynical among us are bound to see Jackson's decision to focus on her acting as the default move, a necessary image rebranding after the lackluster sales of her last album, Discipline, which failed to even go gold. But-and this is the delicious thing about the 44-year-old Jackson -she really is busy enjoying the sweet spot of her power decade to give a ish about haters. "Why can't each and every project live up to it's own standard?" She questions calmly. "Why does this film that Steven Spielberg made have to have bigger numbers than the last? I mean, if it does, great but still, judge it for itself instead of this "You have to do better and better."

"That's that 40ish," she says, chuckling at her reasoned perspective. "There comes a time when you don't give an eff what people say or think. You just do your thing because it's finally about you, and not in a selfish way but in a great way." For the record, she is, at least by the estimation of those who swear a woman in her forties is well past the age of desreability, defying all kinds of convention. In addtion to doing two back-to-back films, Janet has been spotted in the tabs with a short new do and a handsome boo, Wissam Al Mana, a Quatari, who is almost a decade her junior-a fact that would never get any mentions at all if Janet were a man. "It's horrible. It's really awful," she says. "and I have to believe it was a man who started that. Mother always raised us to believe that age was just a number. All of us-my sisters, brothers-we'll just tell you our ages because it's all about where you are mentally and how you feel about yourself."

To be sure, Jackson has no intention of limiting her dreams based on anybody elses expectations. Music is still very much a part of her mix-she headlined the sixteenth annual Essence Music Festival in New Orleans, and "Nothing" the song she sang and helped compose for Why did I get Married too? sound track landed on the urban adult contemporary and Jazz charts. And True You (Karen Hunter Publications), a self-help tome that peppers diet and exercise tips with anecdotes from Jackson's life on her hard-earned and now unassailable self-esteem, hits the shelves this fall. The book reveals that those assaults on her self-esteem came early.

"When I was doing Good Times they wanted me to bind my chest. I started developing at a young age. They didn't tell me that they were going to do this. They just did it as I was getting dressed for the first show. So under the little sweatshirt, that Band-Aid is wrapped around my chest to make me look flatter. That plays tricks here," she says, pointing to her head. "You're an innocent kid, and you immediately start thinking how you look naturally isn't good enough. It really effected me. Up until now. I wanted to write this book because I wanted kids to have something to read and know that they are beautiful as they are."

This aura of self-acceptance makes her content to write the script to her very own life. "It took me a good minute to get here. It really did. But I love my life. I only wish I had this confidence when I was younger." She thinks about this for a long minute and flashes that trademark Jackson smile. "Then again, everything happens for a reason," she says with a laugh. "Maybe thats why it didn't hit me then. I'd probably have been hell on wheels if it had"
 
too much airbrush? I'd say that the cover looks like a cartoon.
 
Janet Jackson: Chest binding really affected me

Janet Jackson: Chest binding really affected me

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Janet Jackson arrives at a Giorgio Armani fashion show last September. Photo: AFP Photo

Janet Jackson says having her chest bound for a TV show when she was a youngster “played tricks” with her head.



The star played Penny Woods in US sitcom Good Times when she was aged 11 to 13. She claims the way her body developed naturally didn’t fit in with the show, so her breasts were flattened beneath her costumes. The decision had a lasting effect on Jackson, who says she felt she should be ashamed of her figure.



“When I was doing Good Times they wanted me to bind my chest. I started developing at a young age. They didn't tell me that they were going to do this. They just did it as I was getting dressed for the first show,” she told Essence magazine.

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Janet Jackson performs at the 2010 Essence Music Festival in New Orleans earlier this month. Photo: Getty



“So under the little sweatshirt, that Band-Aid is wrapped around my chest to make me look flatter. That plays tricks here [she points to her head]. You're an innocent kid and you immediately start thinking how you look naturally isn't good enough. It really affected me, up until now.”



The 44-year-old says she has now come to accept her body. She feels proud of her curves, and hopes to show other women their bodies should be a source of joy.



“There comes a time when you don't give an 'F' what people say or think,” she said in the interview. “You just do your thing because it's finally about you and not in a selfish way but in a great way.”



Jackson has now penned a self-help book called True You, which includes tips on making the most of your physique.



The star is still grieving the loss of her brother Michael Jackson, who passed away on June 25 last year. She has started a relationship with businessman Wissam Al Mana, who is ten years younger than her, and says the romance has been important in helping her heal.



Jackson dismisses the gossip about the age difference in their romance, insisting it is of no importance to her.



“It's horrible. It's really awful,” she replied, when asked about the negative comments about their ages. “And I have to believe it was a man that started that. Mother always raised us to believe that age was just a number. All of us - my sisters, my brothers - we'll just tell you our ages because it's all about where you are mentally and how you feel about yourself.”
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Janet blames too may people for her lack of self confidence. See blamed Michael for calling her Dunk and saying she has a big butt. Now she is blaming Norman Lear and his team for wrapping her breast when she was small.
 
Janet blames too may people for her lack of self confidence. See blamed Michael for calling her Dunk and saying she has a big butt. Now she is blaming Norman Lear and his team for wrapping her breast when she was small.
That's like saying michael blamed to many people for his insecurities as well. Think about that.
 
Janet blames too may people for her lack of self confidence. See blamed Michael for calling her Dunk and saying she has a big butt. Now she is blaming Norman Lear and his team for wrapping her breast when she was small.
things like that can have a lasting effect on you, especially if they happen when you're young. i went through a long period of lack of self-confidence as well, and some of it was brought on by things other people said to me when i was younger.

i eventually got over it when i grew older, and so has Janet.
 
For goodness sake, you didn't see her cry. Well, you didn't see me cry, but I did A LOT !!! Janet probably wanted to get stuck in with her work to keep her occupied, I did the exact same thing. When she said 'life goes on' could you not see the pain in her eyes, if not I suggest you look again...
She waited untill September to do anything if I remember correctly, thats months, how long did you want her to wait years ? Decades ? Out of all the rest of the Jackson family Janet was the one the press wanted the most, she had a lot of work already planned and for her to see them through only makes her stronger in my eyes.
 
Janet blames too may people for her lack of self confidence. See blamed Michael for calling her Dunk and saying she has a big butt. Now she is blaming Norman Lear and his team for wrapping her breast when she was small.

You have clearly never taken a course on psychology.

When you tease children about their physique or any feature of themselves as a child, it will manifest itself later in life. Mike calling Janet Donk because of her ass as a child, manifested in her later years as she wore clothes that made her ass look smaller. That translates into a form of insecurity. Same with Norman Lear and wrapping Janet's bust down. It's like when Mike was at the hands of Joe's abuse, he repressed it until his later years and it manifested later in life and he spoke about it in both his music and in various interviews. It's the same parallel of people who experience a mid-life crisis during their 30s. It's all because of repressed memories from childhood resurfacing to the conscious mind.
 
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Janet blames too may people for her lack of self confidence. See blamed Michael for calling her Dunk and saying she has a big butt. Now she is blaming Norman Lear and his team for wrapping her breast when she was small.

Janet has no personality. She blames others for his failures as she rubs on his dancers.
 
Janet has no personality. She blames others for his failures as she rubs on his dancers.
there is always somtheing wrong with somone isn't there, some of you feel janet has no personality while the media portrayed michael as having a crazy personality. When will the judging stop? people judge michael like this all the time and it's sad that some his fans do the same to his family members.
 
Please do not compare MJ with Janet.
 
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I just want to again ask for everyone to stay on topic. This is a thread only about the Essence magazine. Please reserve comments to what Janet has said here.

When you tease children about their physique or any feature of themselves as a child, it will manifest itself later in life. Mike calling Janet Donk because of her ass as a child, manifested in her later years as she wore clothes that made her ass look smaller. That translates into a form of insecurity. Same with Norman Lear and wrapping Janet's bust down. It's like when Mike was at the hands of Joe's abuse, he repressed it until his later years and it manifested later in life and he spoke about it in both his music and in various interviews. It's the same parallel of people who experience a mid-life crisis during their 30s. It's all because of repressed memories from childhood resurfacing to the conscious mind.

You are absolutely correct in this regard. I don't see Janet as playing a blame game. It is realistic that she would be shaped by her childhood experiences. We all are. Michael went through the same thing in his life as well. He was constantly tormented as an adult by what he suffered as a child. And it became very much a part of who he became.

This is not more so a comparison between Janet and MJ; but, a comparison between Janet, MJ, and all of the rest of us.
 
it's hard to figure out what people are saying about Janet's behind, since most men chase after that, just like they do with Beyonce. there are many women out there, who act like they are proud of having a big behind. and, then, in her concerts, in fact, she started showing off her curves. so, i really don't think the ass issue is the same as the negative stuff being spoken about, here. if Janet really is feeling bad about her curves, then she's not going to be showing them off, in concert, like she did, later, in life. usually, when someone is feeling bad about something, they change it. not show it off, in the future.
 
Janet for the longest time did not show off her curves. She in fact did the opposite and tried to hide them. Now she says she has learned to love herself and her curves. but it was aaprently a tough job to get there because of what she experienced as a child.

She is no longer feeling bad about it, or at least she is feeling more comfortable and confident about it. Hence, why you are now seeing so much more of her.
 
Janet for the longest time did not show off her curves. She in fact did the opposite and tried to hide them. Now she says she has learned to love herself and her curves. but it was aaprently a tough job to get there because of what she experienced as a child.

She is no longer feeling bad about it, or at least she is feeling more comfortable and confident about it. Hence, why you are now seeing so much more of her.

what i am saying is, Janet got a lot of help from the fact that men DO approve of a big behind, and curves like that. and everybody knows it. it's no secret...and i think people are lying, if they don't admit to that. it's not like some other things have been treated, where people clearly don't give approval.

it doesn't take that long for guys and girls to figure out what they see as 'hot', in a sexual manner. every song on the radio, practically, including a song dedicated to this area of a woman's body..a song which went to number 1, makes it all, no secret. and this mass approval of this kind of shape, for a woman has been made loud and clear for much of Janet's life.
 
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You are absolutely correct in this regard. I don't see Janet as playing a blame game. It is realistic that she would be shaped by her childhood experiences. We all are. Michael went through the same thing in his life as well. He was constantly tormented as an adult by what he suffered as a child. And it became very much a part of who he became.

This is not more so a comparison between Janet and MJ; but, a comparison between Janet, MJ, and all of the rest of us.

Exactly.
 
I disagree that it has been for very much of Janet's life. For a very long time in hollywood curvier women were not appreciated. throughout history, fuller figured women have come in and gone out of favor. Particularly in entertainment, unless you can find a niche that makes it otherwise, it is better to be thinner in shape.

There are so many people coming down on Hollywood and magazines for pushing a thin body type on young girls. Despite hearing a song praising a body part eating disorders, low self esteem, etc, are very much a part of many people's lives because thin is always in. (Well usually anyway).

Even MJ said he would rtalk to Janet about her weight because he thought it would help her career to be thinner. With all of these pressures coming from all sides, it is no wonder that weight issues continue to plague so many. And it is no wonder that Janet has had an issue with this for so long. This struggle of hers is one that I VERY much identify with.
 
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