sometimes the existence of ture love is only for such a moment:
at the moment you woke up in the deepest darkness with panic, you know you were walking to the death alone longly... at the moment you think of there was someone, would decay accompanying your decaying, body & soul, wherever you would go to heaven or hell...
you calmed down, warm again, fell into sleep once more.
love raised us from a abyss nobody can escape out of it.
such a place can be filled with only true love, because...
1）if a people love money/fame more than you, how can you expect he/she "decayed accompanying your decaying"?
2）if you own wasn't in love, how can you trust others if you can't trust youself(to do such a extreme thing "decay accompanying your decaying"), how can you trust the other would do it for you if you can't do yourself?
so,
the mutual emotion is a necessay condition for passing such a extreme test.
the mutual & equal weight of emotion should be invovled in true love as the most important base.
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and,
not to be jealous is not called "true love".
no.
never.
on the contrary, to be jealous is a important proof of "indeed in love".
to overcome the over-done jealousy, to tranfer the negative energy(in jealousy) into a active direction such as make yourself progress, to win your right in proper way including expressing your jealousy in a appropriate way... would match the "true love", make the love go forward in a morality, make it more true & firm, it's the key of success.
to force ourselves not to be jealous doesn't match the human nature.
sometimes we were asked to betray the human nature to match some so-called "morality"...
i never think such a so-called morality is a true morality.
i never think those stuff that betrayed human nature can be morality.
no
only when human nature was fulfiled in a proper way, we called it morality.
yes, according above, we can say "to be jealous in a appropriate is some kind of morality including the courage such as you showed others your fetal part, including honest... etc."
all the human nature work the same way.
that's why i love "true love"-----it made people check again the inner, check again the morality they had accepted as common sense---even the slightest distort of human nature can't be hiden in the name of morality while facing the "true love"
ture love is a living bible, showed us the most delicated & deepest human nature given by GOD.
if you had ever been in love, it help you understand this mundane world so much, so deep. even though most time it's so sad that most people reap the largest & deepest gray understanding(of this world) in his/her life.
not much love work in a proper way, that's why people met the large gray.
whatever fail or win, only when your love work in a proper way, you can reap the brightest color(it can balance the gray part).
only love is not enough, we need a proper way to make it(love) better.
the better love make this world brighter.
the sad love make us losing the desire of growing(there are tons of example that the "happy-ending-like love" went forward to a broken family...)
a proper way asked for a lot good character such as courage, honesty, creative opinions...
a good guy was led to the proper way by his good character, found his happiness & peace finally... all ascribe to himself!! yes guys, you can do!! you are the owner of your fate.
