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Tito Jackson : "I forgive Conrad Murray"

^^ what do you mean 'thanks tito'

tito is michael's BROTHER .. u don't care more than tito does about his own brother.
 
Rockin. said:
^^ what do you mean 'thanks tito'

tito is michael's BROTHER .. u don't care more than tito does about his own brother.
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Sorry I don't understand this caring more than his own brother comment.

I don't profess to care more than anyone. What I was addressing is the potential messing up of the jury pool by making certain things public.

If he wants to forgive Murray, like I said no problem, actually good for him. But until this gets to court some things should be kept out of the papers.
 
If Tito can forgive that is good for him, and you have to respect his beliefs, I am Catholic and supposed to forgive, but I also believe in justice.

Murrey has shown no remorse, he didn't have the decency to speak to the family at the hospital before they even knew how Michael died, which makes me think he called a lawyer before 911.

I will forgive Murrey the day he goes to jail and not before.
 
we all need someone to blame , i guess tito is blaming michael
 
Murray should first admit that he did something wrong before we can consider forgiving him.
 
Forgiving does not mean that he does not want justice to be done.
It's just an internal decision that people make in order to move on with their lives and
not let bitterness overtake it.
I'm sure MJ would hate it if his children grew up surrounded by angry and bitter people
 
I am on two minds with this, I agree with being forgiving because believe it takes quite allot more to be unforgiving.

But then again like some of you guys said, Murray deserves to go to jail and there has not been any trail as yet, so Tito just might be giving ppl the wrong impression.
 
MJHistory22 said:
I don't know if this is true what Tito is saying.But if so, then I don't understand it .
How can you forgive someone who KILL your Brother and is still not in JAIL .
For me thats ridicolous.

OMG IN WHAT WORLD DO WE LIVE :(
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your siggy is BEAUTIFUL....:yes:
 
Well I won't forgive Murderer EVER ! ! !

I Hate Murderer as much as I Love Michael, and that's more than u can imagine.

He's broken my heart and shattered all my dreams and I'm sure some of you guys' as well:(, I just can't and won't forgive him:cry:
 
Honestly, I do respect Tito to forgive Dr. Murray, I do to believe in forgiveness, but still I refuse to forgive Dr. Murray or who ever it is for killing him. The only things I refuse to forgive is people screwing with or told on behind our/thier backs, for making lies and for killing Michael. Most things I can forgive except for 3.
 
82Thriller84 said:
Well I won't forgive Murderer EVER ! ! !

I Hate Murderer as much as I Love Michael, and that's more than u can imagine.

He's broken my heart and shattered all my dreams and I'm sure some of you guys' as well:(, I just can't and won't forgive him:cry:
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wrong or not, but I must admit. My heart is broken and I can`t accept Michael´s death. So I won't forgive him, not at time.
 
It takes a very strong person to forgive, especially when a member of your familys life has been taken at the hands of another. The Jacksons were brought up strong people. It he is able to forgive at this stage, then I totally respect him for that. I wish I could.
 
82Thriller84 said:
Well I won't forgive Murderer EVER ! ! !

I Hate Murderer as much as I Love Michael, and that's more than u can imagine.

He's broken my heart and shattered all my dreams and I'm sure some of you guys' as well:(, I just can't and won't forgive him:cry:
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me too.. I will never forgive him :no:
 
emmah24 said:
It takes a very strong person to forgive, especially when a member of your familys life has been taken at the hands of another. The Jacksons were brought up strong people. It he is able to forgive at this stage, then I totally respect him for that. I wish I could.
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+1

I dont hate Murray, but i do want him to serve jailtime.

Hating is a waste of time in my opinion, its poison for the heart.
 
God bless him that is so Godly, so (Michael) of him to do that

To forgive someone does NOT condone the act or sin of another
It does not mean we dont want justice_ but forgivness is also
NOT revengeful _ there is a difference between justice and revenge

When we forgive, we are willing to give up resentment, revenge and obsession.
We are willing to restore faith not only in ourselves, but in life itself. The inability
or unwillingness to do this, causes harm in the one who is holding onto the anger.

"To err is human; to forgive, Divine." Believe it!
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"Forgiveness will not be possible until compassion is born in your heart."
Thich Nhat Hanh, Zen Master
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If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive.
Mother Theresa
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The greatest misconception about forgiveness is the belief that forgiving the offense,
means that you condone it. Not true. In fact, we can only forgive what we know to be
wrong. Forgiveness does not mean that you have to reconcile with someone who badly
treated you.

Another misconception is that it depends on whether the person who did you wrong
apologizes, wants you back, or changes his or her ways. If another person's poor behavior
were the primary determinant for your healing then the unkind and selfish people in your life
would retain power over you indefinitely. Forgiveness is the experience of finding peace inside
and can neither be compelled nor stopped by another.
I believe that to withhold forgiveness is to choose to continue
to remain the victim. Remember, you always have choice.

When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person
or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is
the only way to dissolve that link and get free.
Catherine Ponder
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To forgive is the highest, most beautiful form of love. In return, you will
receive untold peace and happiness. - Robert Muller
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"In this life. . . we are unable to forget whatever remains unforgiven. So,
if we won't let go of some pain - whose time has now past - then who is
to blame for the weight of this burden still being carried on our back?"
Guy Finley
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Compassion is one of the key ingredients of forgiveness. Learn to look for and appreciate
the love, beauty and kindness around you. It's there, and you may have to change your
thinking and behavior to discover it. To have compassion for others, you must first have
compassion for yourself.

To forgive means to "give up", to let go. It also means to restore oneself to basic goodness
and health. When we forgive, we are willing to give up resentment, revenge and obsession.
We are willing to restore faith not only in ourselves, but in life itself. The inability or unwillingness
to do this, causes harm in the one who is holding onto the anger.

Telling someone is a bonus! but It is not necessary for forgiveness to begin. Forgiveness has
little or nothing to do with another person because forgiveness is an internal matter.

Choice is always present in forgiveness. You do not have to forgive AND there are consequences.
Refusing to forgive by holding on to the anger, resentment and a sense of betrayal can make
your own life miserable. A vindictive mind-set creates bitterness and lets the betrayer claim
one more victim.


Forgiveness breaks the cycle of hatred, resentment, anger and pain that is often passed
on to those around you. Forgiveness helps you make peace with your past.

Forgiveness is the sweetest revenge. The only people you should ever want to get even
with are those who have helped you.

Forgiveness. What it's for?
It creates the freedom to create a new future beginning now!
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some of y'all are flat out drama queens...this man is forgiving. don't be upset that he can do that. it takes time but hate will not bring him back, ya know? all it does is make u sick and stress u out.

mj's gone. nocoming back. we need to accept that. u can forgive but still want punishment.
 
Good for him I say! I can't forgive him, but I totally respect that Tito can. I need to know he's paying for what he did, so far he has shown no remorse whatsoever!
 
qbee said:
God bless him that is so Godly, so (Michael) of him to do that

To forgive someone does NOT condone the act or sin of another
It does not mean we dont want justice_ but forgivness is also
NOT revengeful _ there is a difference between justice and revenge

When we forgive, we are willing to give up resentment, revenge and obsession.
We are willing to restore faith not only in ourselves, but in life itself. The inability
or unwillingness to do this, causes harm in the one who is holding onto the anger.

The greatest misconception about forgiveness is the belief that forgiving the offense,
means that you condone it. Not true. In fact, we can only forgive what we know to be
wrong. Forgiveness does not mean that you have to reconcile with someone who badly
treated you.

Another misconception is that it depends on whether the person who did you wrong
apologizes, wants you back, or changes his or her ways. If another person's poor behavior
were the primary determinant for your healing then the unkind and selfish people in your life
would retain power over you indefinitely. Forgiveness is the experience of finding peace inside
and can neither be compelled nor stopped by another.
I believe that to withhold forgiveness is to choose to continue
to remain the victim. Remember, you always have choice.

Compassion is one of the key ingredients of forgiveness. Learn to look for and appreciate
the love, beauty and kindness around you. It's there, and you may have to change your
thinking and behavior to discover it. To have compassion for others, you must first have
compassion for yourself.

To forgive means to "give up", to let go. It also means to restore oneself to basic goodness
and health. When we forgive, we are willing to give up resentment, revenge and obsession.
We are willing to restore faith not only in ourselves, but in life itself. The inability or unwillingness
to do this, causes harm in the one who is holding onto the anger.

Telling someone is a bonus! but It is not necessary for forgiveness to begin. Forgiveness has
little or nothing to do with another person because forgiveness is an internal matter.

Choice is always present in forgiveness. You do not have to forgive AND there are consequences.
Refusing to forgive by holding on to the anger, resentment and a sense of betrayal can make
your own life miserable. A vindictive mind-set creates bitterness and lets the betrayer claim
one more victim.


Forgiveness breaks the cycle of hatred, resentment, anger and pain that is often passed
on to those around you. Forgiveness helps you make peace with your past.

Forgiveness is the sweetest revenge. The only people you should ever want to get even
with are those who have helped you.

Forgiveness. What it's for?
It creates the freedom to create a new future beginning now!
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Thank you for ALWAYS trying to spread a sprinkle of positivity. I've noticed it over and over in your posts, in all sorts of threads.
 
In the spirit of MJ I would like to try to forgive him, I just can't!

I don't think I ever will be able to. He took away my life!
 
Good for Tito. I can't forgive Dr. Murray for taking away an innocent man life away.
 
i dnt think i could forgive someone who murdered my brother, im just a fan and i still cant
 
MichaelMySoul said:
Maybe Tito needed to forgive him to move on with his life, some people deal with grief in different ways. For some people it actually helps to forgive their family members killer... Ive seen plenty of cases where family members forgive their son/daughters murderer...
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Whatever..I cant forgive that monster and I wont... good for Tito forgiving the man who killed his brother out of greed and negliance. Well since Tito and the rest of the family had no money and with Michael gone they can stop begging MJ for money. Now they are reaping from his death...(That's my opinion)
 
I don't think it is for Tito to forgive Murray. You live by your deeds, and the law must be enforced. An innocent man died here..
It could be rubbish printed.
I do not think it is for Tito to forgive. It is for his children, when they grow up, to forgive or whatever they want to do..It is they who is without the light in their lives, it is they who will cry at his Birthday, it is they who will be lonely in their hearts.
Above all it is for God to decide and what goes around comes around..
Well Tito can forgive but I can't. I am not that strong.
 
Tito is full of heart and wisdom just like his mother raised him to be.

I may forgive yet I never forget. I will never forget Michael, and I will also never forget the anger I felt and still feel at the cause of his death. To hate Murray may sound harsh, but how can you not hate someone who asks some outrageous amounts of money to take care of their said patient, then loads them with meds....(overprescribed at most) and then the person ends up dead? How can one extract understanding or empathy out of that?...

I don't hate at this moment, I just feel a tremendous amount of loss. Loss is all I feel, regret and loss.

I don't Murray per say, I hate his reckless actions, but not him....until we know all the details we can't jump to conclusions.
He IS the reason why Mike is gone though...

If I'm to hate anything, it's the addiction; the battle that Michael had with these presecription drugs and the lack of intervention that was so needed to help him. I hate the world for not realizing what an amazing human he was, not just entertainer, but human-being he was, and all of those who mocked him and swept him aside.

Some of us aren't that strong to stand on our own...our spirits may be nimble. Michael needed more...and the world simply ignored.
 
I will forgive Dr Death the day when he's rotting somewhere in a shit pit. Not before. Sorry Tito, but I hunger for Conrad Murray's blood. then I will feel gratified.
 
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