Michael jackson was the gift
What can be said about a child prodigy? What can be said about a child so gifted and talented that moguls in the music industry stood in awe? Society has not known what to do with someone like that. From Mozart to Elvis to Michael - the gifted child has been a question mark.
Michael Jackson had gifts that had global reach and proportion. Only a few have risen as high. Dancer, choreographer, songwriter, videographer – he was multi-gifted, a brilliant mind and put on a pedestal by so many people his life expressed the epitome of the saying, “It’s lonely at the top.” That is hard for an adult to live with and navigate through, let alone a child that with every part of their being cries out to be a child, but because of demands and expectations - cannot.
The gifted child first and foremost is a child. The inside of that child is exactly like the inside of another. They need to wonder, dream, imagine and play. They need to know they are loved unconditionally. They need to feel protected and safe. They need to know they are “wonderfully and fearfully made” and of priceless value. They need someone to discover the unique way they are "bent" and help them along that path. Seems so simple, but it really isn’t.
The fame and accolade that can surround a little “Michael” carry false qualities with them. This is hard to understand unless one has been there. Fame, money and accolade create a force field that makes everything about that life unreal. If that is not intentionally addressed by parents, siblings, friends or pastors the ”famous one” is lost, because all relationship and interaction with people happens because and through the gifting, not through desire for relationship and intimacy with the person.
God created us to have intimate relationships. He built within us a thirst after closeness with someone so that foremost, we would hunger to have that with Him, then with others. In Genesis God created a paradise with all kinds of wonderful plants and animals and set Adam in the midst of it, but still, “The LORD God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.’ Now the LORD God had formed out of the ground all the beasts of the field and all the birds of the air. He brought them to the man to see what he would name them; and whatever the man called each living creature, that was its name. So, the man gave names to all the livestock, the birds of the air and all the beasts of the field. But for Adam no suitable helper was found.”
So God made Eve and brought her to Adam and the Bible says, “The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.” That phrase is key and important! When you are naked you can’t hide much. Everything you have is right out there for whomever to see. They can see all the things we can hide from the rest of the world. Creative clothing can cover up that extra tire around our middle and the right cut pants can camouflage heavy thighs. Everyone needs someone they can metaphorically be naked with. A relationship is an intimate one where the people involved can show each other the real person they are, naked, without anything to cover up. They can show them the good, bad and ugly and still be loved and accepted. Nothing is hidden. Everything is known.
That kind of relationship is always available with Father God. That’s what the secret place is. It is the intimate place where you are completely known and completely accepted. To find earthly intimacy with a friend or mate is possible, but doesn’t always happen. Many married couples never experience it, but when it happens between mates or friends - it is nothing short of a miracle.
When no one knows the real you, when there is no one you can be that safe with, there is a painful void on the inside that defies description. There is no animal on earth that can fill that place (not a dog or a cat!) and no paradise that can fill it (not even Hawaii!), neither can all the money you could imagine (though many of us think we would like to try that!). Only intimate relationship with God and people – in that order - can satisfy it.
Michael Jackson said in a one-on-one interview that was aired on a television special with Charles Gibson after he died, that no one looked at him like they look at other people. They didn’t see him like they would see a neighbor. The sadness in his eyes as he said it told the tale. We were created for intimacy.
As a society we have to take responsibility for what we create in the lives of those that have influence with their call and gifting. We create high pedestals in ivory towers for them to sit and if they would rather sit among the regular people, we make it impossible. We choose to only relate to them through their celebrity, so if they want interaction with other people, they must relate that way back. Then we wonder why they see the world differently than we do. Sometimes they even change their appearance to reflect how they feel on the inside. We laugh at them and label them strange, but how often do we pray for them or recognize there is a reason they are doing those strange things. The church has to be wiser than that.
God created us in His image. The person we are supposed to be is spelled out in His Word – it is no mystery. For every person there is a key that unlocks the prisons that hold them captive, that keep them from being what God created them to be. Jeremiah 33:3 says, “Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.” If we seek Him for it, God will give us the keys. Is there a price to hear from God on this level? You bet there is! Is the price worth paying? Most definitely!
The gifted and talented people in our churches do not have to be victims to their own gifts, callings and destiny. It doesn’t have to be lonely at the top. Worshipers, whether they are musicians, artists, dancers, architects or chefs can be well rounded, happy individuals with godly families, giving optimally of their gifts to bring God’s truth to the world.
Teach worship relationship with God above all else. It brings the gifted one back to the creator and giver of the gift. Who knows better than the Gift Giver how to show someone to live with the gift? Then set the standard high and watch them rise to it. Who are the "Michaels" in your world?
Michael Jackson gave much to and through the world of music. He is gone, but his legacy lives on. "Michael, we hardly knew you".
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http://www.examiner.com/x-12659-Kan...-Examiner~y2009m7d5-Michael-Jackson--the-gift