first of all i posted this
edited to add: I didn't say you personally or alone posted no purpose posts. I wrote "you are the ones " - plural - which is clearly a general statement and the example "i am calm" 4 times is what bumper posted not you. So you are taking it personally on no basis. Perhaps you should take your own advice and not take everything personally.
And you can also see my next post to bumper mentioning the same thing. I just think people shouldn't complain about the "topic shifting to unnecessary stuff" when themselves also participate in off topic posting.
I didn't take it "personally" but i also knew that all of those were about the latest exchange happening. You were sub-mentioning me without me mentioning me. All that doh, i know right, aw lawd etc. Was obvious. Sub posting and sub tweeting is considered rude. At least quote me when you have problems with me or don't act like those posts weren't about me and what i posted.
And constant request? Just because i said it to you some days ago and bumper just now it became a constant request?
The tone and word selection is important when you want to convince people of something. Bumper's post that had a million questions and exclamation marks sounded angry, so did his accompanying big fonted bolded statement with multiple exclamation marks. A simple "ivy you are mistaken i'm absolutely calm
" written in a normal font would be a lot more effective to demonstrate he's calm then "
i am calm !!!" which is equal to shouting.
And i called your tone angry based on to word selections such as "excuse me?" (which i quoted and pointed out) and the use of "stop" which can sound like an order (which i again pointed out). You also replied to me saying that you were frustrated which is closely related to being angry.
It's all about how you say what you say and i'm sorry but shouting, exclamation marks, a lot of questions and certain word selections does make it seem like you - generally speaking - have an anger or unhappiness (whatever you want to call it) that you love to send it my way.