I have another example.
I love Josh Groban. I really do. I have been a fan for several years now and back in 2009, when dark June came, I was mainly listening to his last live album. On the 25th, he twittered this:
Definitely a "Where were you when..." day. Lost a great artist who had great demons. @
theloosh said it...may he finally rest in peace.
And then, on the memorial, he tweetered this:
My heart truly goes out to MJ's kids...the show is over...best tribute would be peace, love and normalcy for them.
Now I just realized that the tweet of the 25th, was not his, but someone else's.... but that really didn't make me any good on that dark day. And then, the second tweet on the 7th, that really hurted me and I stopped following him.
I got really, really angry with him.
VERY angry and dissappointed. I wanted him to say something nice about MJ, but he didn't (in my opinion). It took me several months to start listening to his music again, mainly for it really reminded me so much of Michael and I would end up crying every time.
Eventually I got over it and I just focused on his music and some months ago I started "following" his tweet (I use " " cause I really never check tweeter at all, lol!). I have been in 2 of his shows lately, I have had the wonderful experience to talk to him 3 times, got his autograph and even chat with him last week (he had a live chat for fans). And I really love his music!
But then I had that on my heart, so I went back to see his tweets... and now, looking back with less anger, I see the tweets were really : 1) not really his (though he liked it and so he retweeted it) and 2) it's not really that bad. In fact, that is what we all wish to MJ's kids. But back in the day, in the middle of my pain, it hurted me so much
What I really hated was that part of the "show" being over, for I saw that right after the end of the memorial, so I guess I just overreacted to the whole thing.
Indeed, the best tribute to MJ ever would be to give his kids the normal life Michael wanted for them.
So... it seems like I really did wrong. That's what pain can do.