At some point all three will be angry at the fact that this happened to them, and why. Death is a very hard concept to grasp period, let alone for a child.
My father passed away quite suddenly after his open heart surgery was unsuccessful. I was exactly Paris' age. My mother put my sister and I in therapy and a support group to deal with grief, and it helped immensely, but we have definitely both experienced anger and confusion. And they will deal with it differently as well (I don't know if the story I read was true, I think it was quoting from Latoya, stating such was the current case). My sister is still angry to this day, while I was in denial of the circumstances for the remainder of my childhood, only coming to grips with reality as an adult. They may rebel as teenagers. It's all normal.
I pray for those beautiful children, as it will be that much harder that they do not have a mother as well, as I am fortunate to have. I think the most important thing that helps me deal with my father's death is by having loved ones tell me stories about him, and by looking at pictures and videos, to preserve the memory. I do hope the Jackson's will provide this, as much as possible for the children, to never stop reminding them of his greatness that will triumph any negativity that will approach them as they get older.
