MissyJackson
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Listen to Others Carefully
Often we have conversations where we are only partially paying attention, while at the same time we are thinking about the next email we need to send, or what we forgot to mention to the last person we spoke to. We also commonly make many assumptions about the person we are talking to and no longer fully listen; in effect, we have taken their file, put it in a folder, and filed it away in a drawer. “Oh, they are boring. Their comments in the past were unimpressive.” It is a powerful gesture of kindness, and one that leaves us open to many surprises, to really listen.
I know that this seems to be a thread for reflection, rather than full of replies, but i thought after our conversation in the chat last night that i would come in and really, I mean really read through properly. I've been praying a lot lately, more than usual, as I feel that i've been neglecting my best friend Jesus and feel very uplifted by a lot of what you've posted in here Susie
I was just reading this post, and something really struck me. It referred to one of my best friends at Uni. We met because she lived across the corridor from me in my first year (almost 3 years ago) and although she's a good friend and brilliant when you need a hug, she rarely listens properly when i need some advice or just someone to talk to. I will be pinning some of these around my room at university next year so that she'll read them, and also to remind myself of how i can correct some of my own behaviour :yes:
All in all, thanks very much for this thread!