I agree with your explanation, I try to explain some pages back too. this type of abuse in which the child loves his abuser also exists, it is real, not all abusers are violent predators and unpleasant, many are people who are kind, educated, who even treat the child well and show him love, sometimes also for children these abusers are fun, they idolize and even love and appreciate them, but because of this type of relationship the abuser is introducing them little by little into sexual games without forcing or damaging them, and children are letting themselves be made, even to Sometimes they also do it, and they think it's okay, that it's not bad, and the children end up feeling more in "a relationship of friendship where there are consensual sexual games", which is why even years later they can even deny it, because of shame because they let themselves be made and participated believing that it was okay or they could even like it, or they simply let themselves be carried away because they were doing it with someone who loved them and whom they loved or admired, it is mplejo, child abuse has many forms, not only there is the typical profile of abuse in which the child is forced, other times abuse occurs in the way I have told and this is the most difficult because the victims when they are adults have many problems to accept what happened without feeling guilty themselves for not telling or for letting themselves be done, sometimes they even deny it and defend the abuser because for them it is someone from their environment they admire or want because the abuser is not always evil with children. It is very difficult to understand and accept this type of abuse for the abused themselves. So yes, exists one type on abuse where the victim and his abuser have a loving relationship and only when that child grows up, is an adult and spend years understand that he was abused, some take more time than others to understand that what happened to them was not a spoiled relationship and that it was wrong, because although they felt that there was brotherly love or friendship At the end it was a sexual relationship between an adult and a child, And isnt normal, the understand all and they realize it all explodes and that's when all the problems, stress, depression, anxiety come to them ... and they relive everything again by going all out to the light
