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Earth_Song1 said:
U got it, Amanda!
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Thanks very much :heart:

We're after getting word that it's not as serious as we thought. I'm so relieved but still worried because they're taking tests for three days before they know anything for sure. Thanks again.
 
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^^ You are very welcome and welcome to the thread!
 
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Hope you all have a wonderful weekend.
 
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Things are going better for us. I haven't had the chance to see him yet -- he was going to come over last night but he got off work really late and was exhausted, so he didn't. I hope today he can come over.
I've been doing better with this. I hope we can work this out and keep going down the right path.
 
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Glad to hear that. Keep us posted.
 
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Hope you all had a good weekend.
 
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He had flaky behavior yesterday. I was appalled. He hurt me again and he didn't realize it. We WILL talk. When he's ready and gets a hold of me again.

For now, I'm praying through the Psalms. It's calming me.
 
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Why is he hurting you? That's weird. You should let him know about it if he doesn't already know.

I haven't seen my girl in 2½ days because now I have vacation and I wanna relax and sleep. I'm very tired - I was relaxing at 7 PM yesterday and listening music. Then I fall to sleep and woke up 7 AM today and wondered what's going on, why did I fell to sleep while listening music? Hah. :D

This could be my last vacation before next fall, so I want to sleep. :)
 
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Jaye, I love you, hun, and I know you like him a lot, but seems to me, he is all about him at the moment, and he's not caring how you feel about anything.

Now this is coming from a long time married woman, but I do remember liking guys, that didn't treat me well, and I let them go. I loved me too much to let a man make me feel badly like that.

I would not waste my time. I am not being mean, and I hope you don't hate me for saying it, but he keeps telling you he will call you, etc., when he's ready. Seems like he just wants to string you along.

And anyway, time apart is good for any relationship, like evilman said. I mean, my husband goes out of town for a weekend without me, and I believe having that separate time, has made us stay married for 17 years.
 
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Well, he had come over early Sunday morning and I was at a friend's dorm. I told him I was just leaving there and would be back shortly and he decided to leave and said, "Not tonight, sorry." I begged and pleaded for him to come back and he just said "Goodnight Jaye." He'll come back. I just wish he would have let me know he was coming over...
I don't think he knows that he's hurting me. I need to tell him these things face-to-face. From what people who know him say, he'll come around again and talk. I just don't know when. He leaves me hanging like that and it bugs the crap out of me with worry. I would like to have better communication from him.
A few of my Christian friends who know him and I have been praying for him. And myself. Please continue to do so for us.
 
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I will, but I don't want you hurt, hun.
 
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I think you should let him know that he treats you badly. If you get hurted all the time, you should let him know about it because otherwise it won't stop. I'd never want to hurt my girlfriend so I can't see any reason why some other guy hurt his girl. If I do so, I'd want to know about it. I know it could be hard to say and if you say it right away like that it would hurt him. You can say that he hurts you in situation that he does hurt you. Or at least I think so.

I was with my girlfriend yesterday buying a birthday present for her best friend. Her best friend is also friend of mine but I haven't seen her in ages because she lives so far away. This weekend my girlfriend is going there to meet her. I don't know what should I do this weekend. I guess I could just relax because there is going to be school again next week and there's not even four weeks to our premier! Wow. :)
 
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I WOULD let him know if he would talk to me. I would rather tell him face to face, anyway. I'm trying to be patient with him, I really am. I need to know some things, and I'm trying to earn his trust back, and I can't really do any of this if he's not going to talk to me or see me until he's ready again. I would love to have a timeline and not be left hanging. I don't know if he knows he does this or if he's done it before. I just need answers from him and want to sort this out.
 
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Jaye, text him or whatever and tell him you will not let yourself be left hanging. It's not fair to you.
 
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Why he doesn't trust in you?

I wonder that... that's weird.
 
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I don't really know. I've talked to one of his friends about us and he didn't like that I did that. (Is that controlling?) I've apologized to him 3 times for it and I'm trying to make it up to him right now since he asked me what I could do to fix this, but he's making it hard to do so at the moment. He can't trust my word because I did that.
 
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It's not controlling, Jaye, but you should not talk about your relationship to one of his friends. It will just get back to him, like it did in this instance. If you need to vent, vent here to us, or vent to your real live pals.
 
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I feel like there's quite a few red flags, too. I was talking to my grandparents today and they said they sense danger and don't want me to get hurt. That HE has the problems and is mixed up and is emotionally abusing me.
I'm praying about this...really hard...me and a couple of other friends who know him too...
 
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A couple of my friends tell me that I should just tell him goodbye because they think he's pulling me away from God. He's a believer, but I don't really think he has a solid relationship with God at the moment. And some of the things we've done are kinda proof of that. They think I should cut him out of my life completely because of this. I don't think I can do that. I still want to give him a chance. They think if I choose him then I'm choosing a relationship with him over my relationship with God. I don't know about that. I had said what I had done and how I felt about it and one of them said, "I can't do this," and left. It made her sad that I had done those things.
Oh my gosh, all this stuff is making me think... :(
 
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If your grandparents sense something is wrong, then I would go by their guidence. I loved my grandparents dearly, and still do even though they are gone, but they would not have told you that if they didn't think otherwise.
 
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MJJ_luv1991 said:
A couple of my friends tell me that I should just tell him goodbye because they think he's pulling me away from God. He's a believer, but I don't really think he has a solid relationship with God at the moment. And some of the things we've done are kinda proof of that. They think I should cut him out of my life completely because of this. I don't think I can do that. I still want to give him a chance. They think if I choose him then I'm choosing a relationship with him over my relationship with God. I don't know about that. I had said what I had done and how I felt about it and one of them said, "I can't do this," and left. It made her sad that I had done those things.
Oh my gosh, all this stuff is making me think... :(
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Looks like you have some problems with relationship. Sigh.....I know how it feels. But you must know that you have to be strong. Praying that things will work out the way you want to be will not help the situation. But praying and asking God to guide you will help you find the answers. Sometimes when I'm confused as well, I'll ask God what I should do. Most of time, you need to be patient and see what will it bring to you in time. Things will not always go your way and praying that things will work out will only hurt you more if it doesn't.
Have you try to talk to him, work things out and see what was wrong and if it could be fix? Did it work? If it's too complicated, then it's best to leave the problem aside and focus on other things. In time, if he still really want to be with you, he will chase you like in the movie. If he doesn't feel that way, then you have to be brave enought to love again and let the experince just be a memory for you.
 
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Your grandparents are right. We here in MJJC don't know you in real life, so it's hard us to say what you should do. Your grandparents have a lot of experience from life and they know you well. If they say that you should break up, then I think you should. There is also God. God knows you better than everything and if there's not a sign of things turning out better, I'd say that's the way God wanted it to be. I believe that there is someone out there for you but this guy is not the one.
 
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I could use some prayers and comfort right now :(
Mom is not doing well, Nursing care has suggested i put her on hospice as she is not eating and her body is shutting down-This is not what I expected_ Im overwhelmed with sorry today. I pray for strength, wisdom to make the right decisions and Gods peace that passes all understanding as we go though this_

love you Mickie
 
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qbee said:
I could use some prayers and comfort right now :(
Mom is not doing well, Nursing care has suggested i put her on hospice as she is not eating and her body is shutting down-This is not what I expected_ Im overwhelmed with sorry today. I pray for strength, wisdom to make the right decisions and Gods peace that passes all understanding as we go though this_

love you Mickie
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I'm gonna pray for you, may God bless you and your mom:angel:
 
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Hugs and love to you, Mickie.
 
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Love, hugs and pray, Mickie. I hope things turn out well for you mum.
 
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^^ I agree.
 
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Hope you all have had a great weekend.
 
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Mickie I am praying your mother gets well and that she won't have to go into the hospice. I'm praying for strength for you as well during this difficult time.
 
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When I asked for prayers before, it was too hard for me to say why. Now that I'm alright with it, I'll say what I need prayers for. My husband and I decided for financial reasons that the best thing to do was to sell our house. So please pray it sells quick, at the asking price, and that while it's on the market that my husband and I will have patience and peace of mind because we are lacking in both of them. Thank you all very much.
 
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