Some of you have a
lot to learn about rape culture, and maybe you should think about why you're so willing to excuse Chris Brown's crimes and place blame on the
victim, Rihanna here. All I will say is that as far as I can see, MJ's 'situation' and the assault of Rihanna by Chris Brown are completely unrelated and you should not let your love of MJ/your feelings on the trial coverage cloud your judgement when it comes to other men who are 'persecuted' by the media. They are not one and the same and should not be compared. NO ONE asks to be abused or assaulted, and NO BLAME should ever be placed with Rihanna. Chris Brown and Chris Brown only is responsible for his own actions on that night and also at GMA. He is a grown man and as such should be held accountable, and as an entertainer he has placed himself in the public eye willingly and will come under scrutiny from the general public, that is part and parcel of being a celebrity. The reason why people are 'oh so hard' on Chris Brown is NOT because it's some ~media conspiracy~ (as we now know those GMA questions were pre-approved) but because he has shown absolutely no remorse for his crimes, and he has repeatedly referred to what he did as 'the horrible thing that happened to me' or 'a mishap' as if he dropped a bottle of milk instead of beating his girlfriend half to death, verbally threatening death on her and throwing her out on a sidewalk alone.
He's acted like a spoiled entitled brat, whined that people won't accept what he did and 'move on', and made no real attempt whatsoever to redeem himself. People can't and won't move on until he himself can admit what he did. GMA are actually rewarding his behaviour by inviting him back on their show instead of pressing charges against him for the criminal damage and vandalism he inflicted on their studio. He is NOT having it tough at all, and that is the problem. A short community service stint is clearly not enough when you fall straight back into the same pattern and surround yourself with yes-men who won't step up when you are in too deep.
No matter your thoughts on the media, this is just a case of a deeply unapologetic misogynist being actually called out on his actions for once. I only wish they would ask Charlie Sheen about his well-documented history of domestic and animal abuse instead of trying to worm wacky soundbites out of him.
http://community.livejournal.com/ohnotheydidnt/57575549.html
as you can see right after GMA... he really respects women and has learned from his past. :smilerolleyes:
Chris Brown is clearly a deeply troubled person, if you compare him a few years ago (saying in interviews he never wanted to be abusive like his father was toward his mother) to after the incident, he is on a downward spiral and needs help. But in order to be a better person he needs to first admit to what he has been responsible for instead of skirting around the subject or acting like a victim himself, and make an actual effort to show he has changed and grown. As for the borderline psychotic Team Breezy on twitter, mostly girls sadly, they only excuse him because they perceive him to be more 'talented' than the average person and therefore his crimes to them are unimportant and easily excusable. These girls need better male role models in their lives to be quite frank, and the best I could hope for is that any woman with a shred of self-respect and self-awareness would donate money they would spend on his CD to a woman's shelter instead. If we keep rewarding his behaviour he's on a one-way ticket to prison at this rate. People are hard on him because they want to see him succeed, but he seems determined to ignore these valid criticisms. If you are one of those willing to excuse Chris Brown's past and recent behaviour because of your contempt for the media, you are just another part of the problem.