I think the main reason why people aren't so receptive towards androgyny is the fact that they automatically relate it to transsexuality or homosexuality - which, in many people's minds, is "wrong"
Although in America few dare to be "different" from this point of view (except for the old bands/artists), not the same can be said about the rest of the world.
A curious aspect is that in Japan, it's one of the most normal things you'll see, and very popular too. In fact, Japanese rock is better known as "Visual Rock", precisely because the artists use heavy, bright make-up, wear huge wigs of various colours and some even resort to female clothes.
I'm saying it's a curious aspect also because many of these bands have toured both Europe and America and have had tremendous success. People love their look, find them beautiful and hot - the more visual, the better. I often check out international forums that discuss the Japanese music scene (I'm a fan myself, after all), that's how I know how well received they are. One thing I found interesting is that I've heard many people say that if they saw non-asians dress like that or wearing such make-up, they wouldn't like it, they'd find it unappealing. Maybe because some Asians really are more effeminate and delicate than others? :scratch I dunno.
Anyways, here's some examples:
X Japan (pretty much the founders of this genre)
Yoshiki Hayashi - leader of X Japan
Luna Sea
Malice Mizer
Miyavi - he just finished a world tour, sold out in an instant
An Cafe - been on tour in Europe
Dir en Grey
The Gazette
And there are many more, but I'm not patient enough to post all of them :lol:
I have to admit though, I find it a bit annoying that European bands have started adopting this style, cause it's pretty obvious it's jrock inspired.
For instance:
Cinema Bizzare - Germany
And who doesn't know:
Tokio Hotel
Though I think it's pretty obvious by now, I am into androgynous styles :lol: And I know I'm not alone
P.S. Sorry about the long list of Japanese artists :innocent: :lol: