My "perfect" guy would have to be able to make me laugh, first of all. If we dont have the same kind of sense of humor (or worse...if he doesn't really have a good sense of humor at all), it isn't gonna go anywhere, because I LOVE to laugh and joke around and if I can't do that with him or he doesn't "get" my jokes, I'd get bored pretty quick.
He should be smart and interested in things, be kind and trustworthy, have a good heart and good morals, be caring, loving and compassionate. He should be able to understand me, be patient, calm, be able to compromise, be able to talk things out rather than "yell" because I don't yell and I can't stand people who yell and to me yelling isn't a way to solve conflicts. He should be romantic. He should like kids and animals, and if he's a "kid at heart", he'd be perfect, because I love that quality in a guy. Oh and he should definately be a non-smoker or I won't be interested. He can drink, as long as he doesn't drink until he's completely wasted.
As for looks I can't really say much because a great personality goes a long way and he just has to look attractive to ME and have that "something". He needs to have nice eyes though. Eyes that "sparkle". I love pretty eyes. There has to be "something" in his eyes. He has to have eyes that are "alive". And he has to be taller than me. As for hair/eye color...well I do have a "thing" for guys with dark hair and brown eyes, but that's not a "must".
So that would be my PERFECT guy....now I just have to try to find him...:scratch::lol: