Why do some nice girls last longer with badboys?

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Idk but it seems to me girls and badboys last longer then when girls date fun sweet guys or nice guys. Why is that? Ladies help me understand. Why do girls try to make it work with a badboy and with a guy who i nice..they dump them?
 
For bad guys, some girls think they can change them. They are less willing to break up with someone like them because they think that they need help and that her love would make him change his ways... You also have to take into account that even if the girls want to break up with them, it's harder because you don't know how they will react. They might also have a strong hold on their girlfriends even possibly threatening them and their family if they leave. A lot of domestic violent relationships are like that. It's so sad.
 
For bad guys, some girls think they can change them. They are less willing to break up with someone like them because they think that they need help and that her love would make him change his ways... You also have to take into account that even if the girls want to break up with them, it's harder because you don't know how they will react. They might also have a strong hold on their girlfriends even possibly threatening them and their family if they leave. A lot of domestic violent relationships are like that. It's so sad.

I could not agree more! Especially the bold parts.

Unfortunately, everything you said occurred in my last relationship, sigh* :no:

But life is a journey and I have learned (and survived) from that negative experience in my life. :yes:
 
"To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down."
Sums it up
 
From personal experience, I was in long term relationships with two very nasty abusive people (2 years and 3 years) and the reason you stay is because they ware you down to basically just a shell, you have no fight in you anymore, nothing that makes you YOU. They control you and make you believe this is all you're worth and that you are nothing without them, whereas in reality it is the total opposite.

The cycle of abuse is a very powerful one, it can be easy to look in from the outside and say you wouldn't stay but you don't always realise it's happening until you're in very deep and then it can be hard to get out of.
 
From personal experience, I was in long term relationships with two very nasty abusive people (2 years and 3 years) and the reason you stay is because they ware you down to basically just a shell, you have no fight in you anymore, nothing that makes you YOU. They control you and make you believe this is all you're worth and that you are nothing without them, whereas in reality it is the total opposite.

The cycle of abuse is a very powerful one, it can be easy to look in from the outside and say you wouldn't stay but you don't always realise it's happening until you're in very deep and then it can be hard to get out of.
Thanks for this... I had a hard time understanding how that could happen... But you've explained it very well...
 
Idk but it seems to me girls and badboys last longer then when girls date fun sweet guys or nice guys. Why is that? Ladies help me understand. Why do girls try to make it work with a badboy and with a guy who i nice..they dump them?
i dont know but i completely agree with you :yes:
 
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