Have not seen the movie, but I am on the third book. To be honest i hate Edward. I think he is an emotional abusive boyfriend, and Bella is a whiny, selfish girl a mary sue if you will. I also don't believe they are in love. In the books Stephanie Meyers pretty much describes their relationship like this Bella: Edward your so beautiful, your marble perfectly sculptured body, the scent of your breath wow... Edward: The smell of your blood, Wow I can't read your mind this must be TRUE LOVE!!!. The fact that Edward is a 100 year old vampire and acts like an 18 year old angst kid just makes me angry. he shows no wisdom at all. He controls bella, does not let her see Jacob to the point where he take out the engine of her truck so that she can't drive to see him. And the fact that he is a stalker. Yeah its so great having a guy watch you while you are sleeping before he mentions it to you is stalkerish, and very creepy.
Basically i see this as a shallow, supperficial relationship, as edward as a controlling emotional abusive partner.