Ok i can only help u on talking about the experience...cuz i really didn't go through a "picking a choice" thing...cuz i had my sights on ONE college which i'm currently attending now. For me it came down to being in state, good solid English/Rhet program, big and diverse, and nice campus (dorms, etc).
And as far as experience it's SOOOOO similar to high school in some ways and SOOOOOO different in some ways.
Similar? You have to go to class and do the work. THere's no getting around that lol
DIfferent? You're totally on your own! And its awesome (at least to me). You'll have a lot of things you have to decide on your own like what classes you take, who you hang out with, what organizations to join, what jobs/internships to take, when you're gonna take said classes...etc. But doing so is a real growing experience and it's really FUN!
It's basically what you make it. For me, my uni is soooo big and diverse, there are a lot of people that u can choose to hang out with. You can choose party every night and get drunk (cuz we are considered a big party school, and we have one of the biggest Greek systems)....BUT! You always have a choice. And there are plenty of alternatives if u don't wanna have that kind of experience.
For me, being a sophomore, i've learned that you really do CHOSE what kind of experience you want to have in college. And I am having THE BEST TIME. They say that your best years are your high school years...THEY LIE! :lol: Right now I'm loving life right now...being independent, doing exactly what I want to do as far as my major and career is concerned (its gotten to a point where school work isn't really WORK anymore because I'm into my major now, and I'm enjoying every bit of it)....I have great friends...I've partied hard, I've worked hard (yeah i pulled a few all nighters lol), I've partied drunk, I've partied sober :lol:, I've had roommate drama, and I've had good times with my roommate, I've grown spiritually, I've traveled, I've dealt with the dorm food and I've eaten pizza at 2am :lol:...I mean, like i said, it is what you make it. Personally, I've had memories here that I'll never forget.
Yay! hehe i hope that helped a bit to show you how its like.