Bob George
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The average age of consent in most countries is 16, although it varies from country to country. You'll find that in most countries the age on consent is in the range or 14-18. So technically, anyone over the age of consent who has sex with anyone under the age of consent can be charges with rape, and be registered as a sex offender. Again, this isn't the same for all countries.
So say the age of consent in your country is 16. You're 16 and you're boy/girlfriend is 15r, and the two of you have consensual sex. You can be charged with rape and become a registered sex offender for the rest of your life. But in my opinion, you did nothing wrong. You had sex with someone you knew and both of you were willing participants.
I think there's a way to avoid a 16 year old going to jail for having consensual sex with their 15 year old boy/girlfriend. Lower the age of consent for people under the age of majority. The average age of majority (when you become a legal adult) in most countries is 18. Again this varies from country to country. But it's mostly 18.
Obviously, lowering the age of consent for non-adults would be problematic in a country where the age of majority is 21. That means a 20 year old can legally have sex with a 16/15/14 year old, and that's socially and morally not acceptable in most cultures. There's a rule of thumb for age disparity in sexual relationships, and it's half your age plus seven. So maybe for people under the age of majority, this rule should be applied to determine the age of consent.
So in a country where the age of majority is 18, the age of consent for someone who's 17 should be 15 and 6 months. For someone who's 16 it should be 15. For someone who's 15 it should be 14 and 6 months. The when you get to 14, and apply the rule of thumb, you get 14 again. So that's where it should stop. Because once you go beyond that, to 13, you get a number high than the original number. So once the rule of thumb cannot be applied to produce a number lower than the original number, it should stop. So once you are under the age of 14 it's illegal to have sex. In a country where the age of majority is 21, when the rule of thumb would be most useful, the age of consent for a 20 year old should be 17. For a 19 year old it should be 16 and 6 months. For an 18 year old it should be 16. And so on and so forth until you get to 14 again.
Obviously, if this law was applied it shouldn't be promoting. Like "hey kids, guess what? You can have sex!" But it should just be applied if a case of teenage sex is brought to court and the can use the half-your-age-plus-seven rule to determine if the defendant should be prosecuted if they are under the age of majority. And also, obviously, if it's actual rape, the person could be prosecuted. But at the moment, with the way the law is in most countries, a 16 or 17 year old can be charged with rape for have consensual sex with their 15 year old boy/girlfriend.
So does that make sense, and would it work? Would it stop innocent non-adults, having consensual sex with someone just a couple of years younger than them, from going to jail and pretty much having their lives ruined by being a registered sex offender for the rest of their lives?
So say the age of consent in your country is 16. You're 16 and you're boy/girlfriend is 15r, and the two of you have consensual sex. You can be charged with rape and become a registered sex offender for the rest of your life. But in my opinion, you did nothing wrong. You had sex with someone you knew and both of you were willing participants.
I think there's a way to avoid a 16 year old going to jail for having consensual sex with their 15 year old boy/girlfriend. Lower the age of consent for people under the age of majority. The average age of majority (when you become a legal adult) in most countries is 18. Again this varies from country to country. But it's mostly 18.
Obviously, lowering the age of consent for non-adults would be problematic in a country where the age of majority is 21. That means a 20 year old can legally have sex with a 16/15/14 year old, and that's socially and morally not acceptable in most cultures. There's a rule of thumb for age disparity in sexual relationships, and it's half your age plus seven. So maybe for people under the age of majority, this rule should be applied to determine the age of consent.
So in a country where the age of majority is 18, the age of consent for someone who's 17 should be 15 and 6 months. For someone who's 16 it should be 15. For someone who's 15 it should be 14 and 6 months. The when you get to 14, and apply the rule of thumb, you get 14 again. So that's where it should stop. Because once you go beyond that, to 13, you get a number high than the original number. So once the rule of thumb cannot be applied to produce a number lower than the original number, it should stop. So once you are under the age of 14 it's illegal to have sex. In a country where the age of majority is 21, when the rule of thumb would be most useful, the age of consent for a 20 year old should be 17. For a 19 year old it should be 16 and 6 months. For an 18 year old it should be 16. And so on and so forth until you get to 14 again.
Obviously, if this law was applied it shouldn't be promoting. Like "hey kids, guess what? You can have sex!" But it should just be applied if a case of teenage sex is brought to court and the can use the half-your-age-plus-seven rule to determine if the defendant should be prosecuted if they are under the age of majority. And also, obviously, if it's actual rape, the person could be prosecuted. But at the moment, with the way the law is in most countries, a 16 or 17 year old can be charged with rape for have consensual sex with their 15 year old boy/girlfriend.
So does that make sense, and would it work? Would it stop innocent non-adults, having consensual sex with someone just a couple of years younger than them, from going to jail and pretty much having their lives ruined by being a registered sex offender for the rest of their lives?
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