Janet Jackson Reflects On Whitney Houston’s Death, Offers Advice For Bobbi Kristina

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NEW YORK, N.Y. -- Janet Jackson says she was left “shaking” by the news of Whitney Houston’s death.


“I couldn’t believe it. Immediately I started shaking,” Janet told Anderson Cooper in an appearance set to air on “Anderson” on February 20. “I was trying to text everyone that I knew to let them know and I was speechless. I could not believe it.”


The singer, who lost her own brother, Michael Jackson in 2009, said she learned about Whitney’s death while watching television.


“I was home… I just so happened to be watching TV and I saw this newsflash and I still can’t believe it when I hear them playing tribute to her on the radio,” Janet said. “It’s still such a shock to me. I don’t want to believe it.”


When asked if she had advice for Whitney’s daughter, 18-year-old Bobbi Kristina, as she deals with the tremendous loss of her mother, Janet suggested turning to faith – and – to professional help.


“It’s a very, very tough time, even though it’s still a loss, I lost my brother, she lost her mother. There’s still a difference, even though there’s still a loss to a family,” Janet said. “I don’t know what that’s like being so young. It was hard for me. It was very, very difficult for me. I didn’t want to accept it, it’s very difficult. You have to come to terms at some point, you have to actually give it up to God and it sounds so mean, but you have to move on, you can’t hold onto that because it can be very devastating. Sometimes therapy is the best thing.”


Janet told Anderson she is praying for Whitney’s family, including the superstar’s ex-husband, Bobby Brown.


“It’s very, very devastating and I pray for her and her family, even Bobby. I mean he’s going through so much. They are all going through so much. The mother, it’s very sad,” Janet said.


Reflecting on Whitney’s career, Janet used a term so often used to describe Whitney over the years — “the voice.”


“She was known as the voice. When she would open her mouth and this instrument would come out you would obviously understand why,” Janet said. “She was such a sweet, sweet soul — especially back in early ‘80s and early ‘90s is when I connected with Whitney the most. It doesn’t matter if we were doing an awards show. We would always take the time out to find one another. Either she’d come to my dressing room to say, ‘Hey!’ and I’d be in makeup or I’d find her in her dressing room to say ‘Hey!’ We always found time to talk to one another. She was such a sweet soul.”
 
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She's looking wonderful! Hard to believe she's 46 soon!

Whitney's How Will I Know was actually wrote for Janet too. Whitney also attended Janet's very first concert on the Rhythm Nation World Tour

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This thread is about Janet remembering her FRIEND, not what supposedly w/ happen Michael in the past. Janet and Whitney were close and she dated Bobby before. Janet knows the pain Bobbi and Cissy is going thru losing a family member so there's nothing wrong with offering advice to them.
 
Why can't you just stick to the thread? This isn't about what she's said about MJ, any thread you turn negative. and @jaydom you do not know what Janet or Katherine think so you can't say that, if your sick of hearing it stop watching the interviews and save yourself from hearing it again.
 
Hopefully, Anderson does'nt go into any comparisons as far as 'drugs'or 'addictions' are concerned, 'cause all over the media they are just having a grand time putting both Whitney and MJ in the same box.
 
Hopefully, Anderson does'nt go into any comparisons as far as 'drugs'or 'addictions' are concerned, 'cause all over the media they are just having a grand time putting both Whitney and MJ in the same box.

It wouldn't surprise me if he did, the rest of the world is already running around lumping Michael, Amy, and Whitney in the same group. Funny bc Michael's death was considered and we still don't know what happened to Whitney. I know this is about reflecting on Whitney but it would be nice if the Jackson's at least defended their own and resisted the world's eagerness to lump Michael as yet another "reckless junkie". And Janet brought up that she lost Michael, just like Bobbi Kristina lost Whitney (undertones of a junkie kinship is all over that) so I don't think it's completely out of line if some take offense to this and bring up Michael. It was Ms. Jackson herself that invited this turn to discussion about Michael.
 
why don't you actually READ instead of jumping to conclusion she's offering advice to Bobbie Kristiana ( whitney's daughter) advice on grieving and dealing with death where the hell do you get drugs or even that somebody is implying mj was a crack head from smh
 
The Brown Gangsta;3599061 said:
It wouldn't surprise me if he did, the rest of the world is already running around lumping Michael, Amy, and Whitney in the same group. Funny bc Michael's death was considered and we still don't know what happened to Whitney. I know this is about reflecting on Whitney but it would be nice if the Jackson's at least defended their own and resisted the world's eagerness to lump Michael as yet another "reckless junkie". And Janet brought up that she lost Michael, just like Bobbi Kristina lost Whitney (undertones of a junkie kinship is all over that) so I don't think it's completely out of line if some take offense to this and bring up Michael. It was Ms. Jackson herself that invited this turn to discussion about Michael.

WTH?

I do not get that at all. She's relating to Bobbi K. because she lost a family member

“It’s a very, very tough time, even though it’s still a loss, I lost my brother, she lost her mother. There’s still a difference, even though there’s still a loss to a family,”
 
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The media is very clever when pushing their agenda, they don't need to literally spell out everything they are trying to make you believe. One of their favorite tactics is grouping certain topics together to help "guide" your mind to the desired conclusion. There are tons of of articles that lump them as junkies outright, a couple of so called "innocent" stories that still connect similarities between the two work perfectly to enforce the bigger agenda of belittling both stars. It's yellow journalism 101, and as someone who grew up in the business she's not naive to the media's games.
 
Janet always looks wonderful. I noticed that she says Witney's daughter should seek professional help and prayer, but it is strange that she does not mention family support. Whenever, something dreadful happens it seems logical that the young turn to family first, then professional support if that is needed. Well maybe I am strange about the importance of family. We know grandma is strong, because he got help for Whitney before and stood by her. The daughter also has her musical aunt and I am sure various family networks.
 
I feel bad for her daughter. They seemed very close and she will feel this loss for a very long time. In time she will move on with her life but for now it will be very tough. She does have her father. I know Bobby is not a popular guy but I haven't heard him being a bad father (except the child support with his other kids along time ago). Her family needs to keep close to her. Prince, Paris and Blanket know exactly how Bobbi Kristina is feeling right now.
 
Showing you have issues way beyond Michael Jackson, Janet Jackson or any Jackson. Heal thyself.!!!!!

Better yet, focus the anger at the media who is trying every which way to connect MJ and Whitney's deaths.
 
Mod Note This thread is cleaned
please stay on topic and dont use this thread as a Janet bashing thread
try to discuss or quote her own words if that will help you stay on topic. becuase many posts removed were not even addressing What Janet said. Dont use every Jackson thread as an excuse to bash. Try not to attck and argue with each other and please discuss this topic with some decorum and sensitivity to the subject matter .
 
Thank you mods for deleting the unnecessary posts especially mines. Sorry I went out at some fans like that. I should be mature at these type of situations. I had a really crappy day.

Anyway back to the subject.
 
The Brown Gangsta;3599080 said:
The media is very clever when pushing their agenda, they don't need to literally spell out everything they are trying to make you believe. One of their favorite tactics is grouping certain topics together to help "guide" your mind to the desired conclusion. There are tons of of articles that lump them as junkies outright, a couple of so called "innocent" stories that still connect similarities between the two work perfectly to enforce the bigger agenda of belittling both stars. It's yellow journalism 101, and as someone who grew up in the business she's not naive to the media's games.

But that was not the case in this interview or Janets words and bringing all that into this thread was a total derail of the thread and the sensitive topic matter and I dont blame those who were upset about it. I just wish people would keep to the topic of the thread and not stray off just for the ONLY purpose of bashing a Jackson.

Say what you will about the yellow media and if that is where "your" mind was led from this interview so be it.
But there was NO reference from Janet in this interview for anyone to go there - You said prior her words below
were implicating a kindship of junkies _ That is a HUGE disrespectful stretch of her own words and nothing
of the kind. You put that slant on it. She is comparing a loss of a family member not the loss of junkies.

“It’s a very, very tough time, even though it’s still a loss, I lost my brother, she lost her mother.

Your point about the media is noted - now I hope we can get back on topic
 
The only advice that should come out of Janet's mouth is: "Don't go on Oprah calling your mom a drug addict before the autopsy report is released" or "Don't use your dead mom as a career launching/re-launching pad"
 
The only advice that should come out of Janet's mouth is: "Don't go on Oprah calling your mom a drug addict before the autopsy report is released" or "Don't use your dead mom as a career launching/re-launching pad"

Bravo!!
 
This might be a crazy idea but it would be nice if she spent time with Prince, Paris and Blanket privately of course. They understand how she is feeling right now better than anybody. I know she is older than them but if she needed to talk about it and Whitney and Michael respected and cared for each other so it make sense. If was Katherine I would want to reach out to Whitney's mom.
 
Some people just have nothing better to do than to come and troll on a thread on someone they obviously don't like, if all you want to say about Janet (over and over may I add) is comments she's made, which you take in a certain way, then say it to your self, I'm sure the mods get bored of deleting your identical comments, just worded differently each time, can we not be adults?

Anyway I came in here to post a magazine interview Janet did where she says a little more on Whitney:

I don't think a Whitney is gonna happen again


“I remember, it was at the Grammys, actually. It was the first time I was performing, actually…and someone from my camp was filming my performance backstage, and she and Luther Vandross were standing there, and you could hear Whitney – and Luther – in the background – just cheering me on during the whole performance. And I just thought: How sweet. How sweet is that? Such a beautiful soul, such a beautiful soul. And I wish more people would have had the opportunity to get to see that, to know that person, not just the entertainer, not just the voice….I don’t think there will be another like her, honestly. Granted, there will be someone else that comes along with a beautiful voice. But I don’t think a Whitney is gonna happen again.”
 
This might be a crazy idea but it would be nice if she spent time with Prince, Paris and Blanket privately of course. They understand how she is feeling right now better than anybody. I know she is older than them but if she needed to talk about it and Whitney and Michael respected and cared for each other so it make sense. If was Katherine I would want to reach out to Whitney's mom.

That would be a nice gesture indeed.
 
This might be a crazy idea but it would be nice if she spent time with Prince, Paris and Blanket privately of course. They understand how she is feeling right now better than anybody. I know she is older than them but if she needed to talk about it and Whitney and Michael respected and cared for each other so it make sense. If was Katherine I would want to reach out to Whitney's mom.

I understand what you're saying, but I dont know how much help these kids can bring since they need help themselves. And from what I've seen, it seems to me Bobbi K will be getting more support than Michael's kids; she has a whole loving, caring, and truly united family around her, not to mention friends, which is more than the younger ones have. Cissy's not on her own either.
If someone need the other's help, it would be the Jacksons needing the Houstons.
 
I understand what you're saying, but I dont know how much help these kids can bring since they need help themselves. And from what I've seen, it seems to me Bobbi K will be getting more support than Michael's kids; she has a whole loving, caring, and truly united family around her, not to mention friends, which is more than the younger ones have. Cissy's not on her own either.
If someone need the other's help, it would be the Jacksons needing the Houstons.

I just meant that her mom and Michael were famous and also she had a close bond with Whitney as the kids did with Michael so they would know how she is feeling. They just know how she is feeling right now. Sometimes the closest people are there for you but they don't really understand. They could help each other. They might never meet anyways but losing their parent is something they have in common now unfortunately.
 
those are nice words from Janet about Whitney.. she calls Whitney a 'beautiful soul'..
 
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@Marebear, I totally understand what you mean. I hope my post didnt sound belittling, because it wasnt meant to be.
 
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