Is it just me...

babykinsilk05

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or is HARD to see the Jackson's (all of them) moving on with their lives without MJ? I know they've always had their own lives and they need to wrok, but there is this feeling that maybe his death has been something of a relief for them in the way that they don't have to worry about him anymore. I KNOW they have grieved and are probably still grieving, but, idk, I just can't shake this feeling.

Anyway, Just needed to get that off my chest.
 
i understand, i think michael would want them to move on , not to be sad and greiving all the time, in a way maybe they relieved he doesn't have to face all the nonsense criticism and scrutiny while he was living
 
well of course he wants us to move on and be happy, but really a tragedy like this to some ppl, changes ppl forever mentally and emotionally. Even though we / I didn't know Michael personally, that doesn't matter. I'm a changed person now - if you cut me, I won't bleed. I know that sounds cliche but its true.


I still don't want to be here anymore because Michael's not here- but for some reason, I am here now.
 
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From watching the Jackson Dynasty show, I found out that Jermaine and Tito were considered the musicians of the four, which I thought they all were, but I guess them two are more. Anwyay I see Jermaine and Tito wanting to perform. That doesn't mean they aren't grieving. That probably means that is their way of coping. They are turning to music to express their feelings of their loss. Whereas Jackie and Marlon want to make sure that a show without Michael is done perfectly and maybe they are dreading going on stage too without Michael, so therefore they want to take more time to prepare for the show. I'm sure Jermaine and Tito are dreading going on stage without Michael as well as Marlon and Jackie.
 
Damn it, girl... You just wanna be starting something- for every thread... :D

You better stop in the name of love!

Gosh, I'm so tired of the drama. If you want, ponder on that thought yourself...

I don't really see the need for a thread like this.

It's just asking for trouble.

And I say this with all due respect... kay? :p
 
I can't even bare to look at Katherine. They were so close.
 
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I don't agree with the part of them feeling relief over his passing. His passing I believe has brought more tension and pain into their lives. As I watched the series I heard Tito mention at one point something to the extent of "Everyone is just crazy since Michael's death. Just give them time." Their lives are more in the spotlight now I think since his passing because now instead of everyone following Michael they all want to follow his family to get gossip or get news on something.

As for them moving on without Michael well it's partly true. If anyone saw the last episode of the Jackson Family Dynasty that aired the brothers said Michael is with them...when they are in the recording studio and they made a point to say that even then when they were talking to the producers that Michael was there with them in spirit.

For everyone that has lost a loved one knows that when someone close to you passes than you feel guilty for going on with life but it just needs to be done. The family is moving on because that's what Michael wants. They aren't leaving Michael behind because he's with them...not physically speaking but in spirit he's with them as he is with all of us. So none of us are truly leaving Michael behind because he never really left out side.
 
i think it's a giant paradox. nobody in the Jackson family committed suicide..but people outside the family committed suicide, as a result of June 25. Fans of MIchael and the family, or fans of the entire family, or fans of Michael, or the family don't know how to handle each other.

and the members of the family SEEM to have a wide variety of reactions. don't know for sure on that one.

people say that everybody dies, yet the whole world says it was shocked at this death. that's a first. most people say they see a death coming, and say that..oh...we're shocked, but we kinds saw it coming. but none of that was said of Michael. absolutely nobody saw it coming..though..they say everybody dies.

the whole thing is like a parallel universe.
 
i think it's a giant paradox. nobody in the Jackson family committed suicide..but people outside the family committed suicide, as a result of June 25. Fans of MIchael and the family, or fans of the entire family, or fans of Michael, or the family don't know how to handle each other.

and the members of the family SEEM to have a wide variety of reactions. don't know for sure on that one.

people say that everybody dies, yet the whole world says it was shocked at this death. that's a first. most people say they see a death coming, and say that..oh...we're shocked, but we kinds saw it coming. but none of that was said of Michael. absolutely nobody saw it coming..though..they say everybody dies.

the whole thing is like a parallel universe.
Great post
 
For me its hard to see katherine and Janet now... ;S
and when I see michael's kids on the street ... it feels like something is missing when i see them... its michael :cry:
 
It's hard because whatever his family and his kids are doing I can just picture Michael there with them. But he is not there anymore. They have no choice but to go on with living their lives but it doesn't mean Michael isn't in their thoughts and in their hearts. I know he is in mine.
 
For me its hard to see katherine and Janet now... ;S
and when I see michael's kids on the street ... it feels like something is missing when i see them... its michael :cry:

I agree. Its very very hard for me to even look at Katherine now & Janet too- but more Katherine. They were so close & besides that, I hear on tv 'since loosing her son...' when talking about them, and it breaks my heart. She must've been so so proud of Michael, being his mother & being the mother of a very well loved man.
 
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