i wouldn't do it. a lot of time/energy/money is wasted that otherwise wouldn't w/ just meeting some1. all w/in 5 minutes @ a club/bar/park/store/work/etc you get the vibe of if anything will go anywhere w/ the person. internet, after what i imagine is paying an absurd fee a month, and then a correspondence of about 50 million emails to negotiate a time and meeting place, you finally meet the person, and . . . there's zero chemistry.