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Isis

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I am sorry,I don't know were to post this...I hope you guys don't mind.
I love him for 20 years now,and I have heard all the crap in the world about him,all kind of words..I am used to mean comments all the time from all the people that hear his name.
But..the most annoying and disturbing thing that I hear all the time is that
M,my beautiful angel is ugly.:cry:
I don't know what people are saying around you,but around me this is what I hear all the time.And in the magazines....oh my God...it's full of that garbage.:mello:
"he looks weird' " he's a mummy" "he looks like a ghost" "he is dead ugly"( a recent magazine wrote),and most of people agree.:(
Not all of them,thank God.:mello:
I don't get it.:no:
He is one of the most beautiful man in the world.
He has such beautiful eyes,big,dark,expressive...like an angel...:angel:
He has such a cute button nose,little and sweet:D
His lips are soooo sensual,soo full and perfect,and his smile....is killing,it takes you off your feet:D.
His jaw line is so masculine,so sensual....:yes:
How can this be ugly?
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Remember this photo?It was a huge scandal in the press when he looked like that.I remember.
HE IS PERFECT.Did you ever seen everyone this perfect before?

Or in this picture..look
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It's PERFECTION.
At least for me. :)
And don't tell me you have never heard this unjustice before because I won't belive you.It's all over,among other things....
It's frustrating for me...there is nothing I can do to stop this.:(
 
I understand what you are saying. I've heard these comments, too. I don't know why some people cannot see it, that he's beautiful. Not just in appearance, but in spirit and character. Just stick by what you believe, is all I can really tell you.

Victoria
 
yea I know what you meen! Luckily the media here in Denmark has stopped more or less with Michael Jackson.

It's really like a stab in the heart for every bad word I hear about him. Not because I think he's some perfect angel sent from above, but because I hurts me sooooo sososososso much that anyone would be so mean to a person that has done nothing wrong. A beautifull, sexy person. I meen! NO man in the world can move he's body THAT way - like Michael Jackson. The dance he does in fx. You Rock My World - you men out there should really think about how aaaal the other animals on this planet make the girls want them?

Know the word mating-dance ? It's what the animal males do to get the attention from the girls.. Basicly they walk or jump around the girl, showing off all the good things about them (ya know what I meen..) and they do it by instinct. This is a skill that Michael master better than the most men of the human race :p

So besides the natural beauty that he was born with, he also has some skills as to be attractive in more aspects than one. You men out there should learn from him :p

So I think that people should just stop being so negative about Michael appearance because theres no man in the world that can show of he's masculinity like he can!..
 
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Thank you guys,I love you,you are so kind and sweet!:)
I wish people will stop with this badness....I don't know what else to call it!:(
 
the sad thing is I think it's a "fashion" to say that Michael looks ugly,I guess it is because he changed so much but part of that change is due to vitiligo anyway I think he is beautiful too...
 
And I've noticed something else,too...almost all the people that say that are male.Some women say it too,but mostly are men.Why do they hate him so much?I don't get it.HE is such a big threat to them?
 
ppl are blind they read the storys the media put out in papers about him and put 2 and 2 together and come up with 200
Yeah,and they also write what they dream at night.But not the reality.:(
 
I agree with you.
He has the most beautiful eyes, I could stare in them forever.
People have been manipulated by the medias bullshit!
One of my friends admitted the other day, that "his not THAT ugly".
People are blind :/ But on the other hand, it's worst for themselves, they are the ones who will miss a lovely man.
 
It is the media's fault. People are used to hearing or reading that he is "ugly", "like a ghost", "weird" and so on and so they got used to the idea that he is all that - although,obviously,he is not. I get this kind of remarks all the time,also - from girls,usually,so it is not just guys that say all this stupid things about him.I'm a guy so,to be honest, I don't really care that much about the way he actually looks,but idiotic remarks do annoy me, especially when they don't have a real basis. It is the way he is seen by the general masses, and not because the majority actually thinks these things about him,but because they've heard that he is like that over and over again and they've got used to beliving that he is.
 
they say what will create the best buzz and sell ... they could care less whether it is true or not. Nobody is everyone's cup of tea though. People are attractive to different people for various reasons *shrug* for instance, I feel very strongly that Brad Pitt is the most dreamy man and was so very shocked, when someone at work was in total disgust that I felt that way. I am like, how can you say he is ugly ?? That is their opinion *shrug* I cannot make them like his looks. Nor do I need to :) How I finally looked at it was, one less to compete for Brad's attention with :lol:

It is their loss not ours ;)
 
You guys are right.People are saing all kind of bad things,without thinking.
Ten years ago it was " he looks like a woman" now it's like"he looks like a mummy" :(.
And I hate when I hear stupid things like "he has 100 surgeries",how can they say that?HE LOOKS THE SAME TO ME NOW LIKE HE LOOKED 10 YEARS AGO,15 YEARS AGO.:)
And his beauty is angelic,heavenly...:angel:.
ps:and yes,Brad Pitt is drop dead gorgeous :smilerolleyes:
 
ppl are blind they read the storys the media put out in papers about him and put 2 and 2 together and come up with 200

thats true and the other thing is the press seems to have a problem with plastic surgery and make a big deal out of it when people have been having this surgery for years.
 
And I've noticed something else,too...almost all the people that say that are male.Some women say it too,but mostly are men.Why do they hate him so much?I don't get it.HE is such a big threat to them?

We, the female gender, see a thing of beauty, in general, when we see Michael Jackson. And his dance and natural rhythm is EXTREMELY attractive to us (whether we want to admit it or not). To answer your question, YES, most men think of Michael as a threat to them (whether THEY want to admit or not), and so instead of saying "Michael's a threat to me" they'll do what men do and degrade him in whatever way they can. My own hubby is no exception. And what is strange is that Michael is the only one he views that way, in regards to his protectiveness of me. It's instictive for him to feel he has to keep me away from this "threat" named "Michael Jackson", so he follows the status quo and calls him the typical names. And I don't even make a big deal over him. I never even talk about him or listen to his music when hubby is around...indeed, the ONLY time I talk about him or listen to his music is privately or around my kids. Oh well he can think what he wants but nothing and no one can steal me away from my precious hubby, and no one can convince me that Michael Jackson is not attractive. So what. A lot of men are attractive, but I never make any big deal about it.

In Michael there is a different kind of attractiveness than most. Instead of being a big hunk of muscles and having extremely masculine features, he has a BEAUTIFUL handsomeness, something not typically attributed to men. If he were a woman he would look ugly. But since he is a man, he looks drop-dead gorgeous. It's a beautiful and unique balance of physical features which he has...no matter what color his skin happens to be. What's more, his natural features give a him a youthful look. He is for a fact 50 years old, but he looks much younger than that. His outlook on life helps, as well.

No matter what Michael thinks of his looks (for ages he has said he never likes how he looks), he knows that women go crazy over his looks. He knows they go crazy over his dance, something that naturally flows out of his heart, soul, and body. He can't help being a sexy man. To be anything other would be contrary to himself. He'd have to work hard to be other than what he is. He just goes with who he is and is content to be so.

Anyway once again I've written too much. Yes, in general, women think of Michael is gorgeous, and yes, men think of Michael as a threat. An irony of nature.
 
No matter what Michael thinks of his looks (for ages he has said he never likes how he looks),
Yes, in general, women think of Michael is gorgeous, and yes, men think of Michael as a threat. An irony of nature.
Yeah,I never understud why Mike thinks that he's not beautiful...He's wrong.:D
I like your post..thank you :yes::clapping:
 
Yeah,I never understud why Mike thinks that he's not beautiful...He's wrong.:D
I like your post..thank you :yes::clapping:

I'll give you some reasons why he thinks that:

1. Michael is a perfectionist. Perfectionists are rarely, if ever, completely satisfied with anything...With a perfectionist there is always a strive to be better.

2. Michael went through an extremely difficult puberty physically and emotionally, and he's got the scars on his heart from name-calling from both family and fans.

3. Vitiligo causes an enormous amount of psychological stress. He's had it his entire adult life, if not longer (there's some speculation that he had a few white spots as a child, as well, just not nearly the extent it became later).

4. Media today taunts him incessantly over his looks. They'd do it whether he had any cosmetic surgery or makeup or not. To the media there is always something to tease.

There's plenty of reason to understand why Michael feels that way about his looks. We as fans cannot be blind to them. But we as fans think he is very attractive, indeed. His beauty inside permeates to his beauty outside and makes him look even better than he already is. In his life he's had to come to terms with all of the reasons listed above, and just be himself and not get depressed about it. He's got more in life to deal with.
 
as a guy, i agree with all the women in here who say that men outnumber women in saying bad things about MJ's appearance. you are right. the men are threatened. that's where the legendary sayings about empty flattery come from. you know a person has it going on, when they are attacked for no reason. the thing you gotta watch out for is if that person gets a lot of flattery..then that means that they don't think much of them, really.

i rarely hear another man flatter MJ, outside his fanbase. they do attack him. the women do show genuine love as opposed to empty flattery...at least they'll refute the men and say, that MJ looks quite normal to them..and Lisa Marie once used the term 'aesthetic'. just a one word substantial tribute to MJ's beauty. it's the women's love of MJ that makes the media men extremely envious, to the point of burning inside, with hate of MJ. just last night, i heard some radio jocks verbally assault mj's appearance while admitting that his music such as dirty diana would hit number 1 if it were released today.
 
I hear s...t like that on the radio all the time.How can you put down a man who is a living legend,and you are a nobody,a nothing...?They will never live up to his little toe.Never.
 
Well I don't understand all the mean remarks about MJ's looks either because I think MIchael is GORGEOUS!! To me he is such a GOODLOOKING man! Sometimes when they say all those stupid things about his face I'm like "Hello???? LOOK at him!!! He is GORGEOUS!!!". But then I think, "oh well...their loss!". :p :lol: Or like when Diane Sawyer asked Lisa Marie in one interview "But what about how he looks?!" ... I just wanna scream "He looks HOT!!!!!" every time when I watch it and she says it! :lol: If any female who has seen MJ live, close up, in gold pants says MJ isn't a goodlooking, HOT man....there is something wrong with them. :lol: I can remember when I was watching an MJ concert with my friends when I was in high school and they weren't really his fans, but once they saw him they were like "OMG, he is HOT!!!". :wild: :lol: They were totally in shock themselves!! :lol:

And this PICTURE:

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Gosh, Michael looks GORGEOUS!!!! Those EYES!!! *faints* Not really loving the stubble, but other than that he looks absolutely GORGEOUS!! *faints again*
 
The media will say what ever they want to, no matter if it's true or not. And then you have these sheep who repeat everything!!!
Michael is beautiful inside and out, no matter what anybody says.
 
And this PICTURE:

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he looks absolutely GORGEOUS!! *faints again*
Yeah,he is such a beautiful person.I hope he can see that some day,if not through his own eyes,at least through someone else's eyes.:)
 
Here's something I've learn through the years, and it goes to all people, not just Mike.

You can be the ugliest person in the world to a person, while at the same time being the most beautiful to another.
We all are attracted to different things, something that I can find as a "turn on" can to another person be a "turn off".

At the end of the day, in Michael's case especially, is that people are afraid of what is "different" and what they don't "understand". I don't want to make this too deep but that's kind of the same fear racism is built of. People don't understand nor have knowledge of his vitiligo, that's why it's so simple to be ignorant towards him to protect themselves, because if they embrace a "freak", then themselves become a "freak".

Sometimes it's more useful to talk to a wall than to talk to ignorant people.
 
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