My son got it for me for my birthday. It took me almost a month to finally watch it, and I did it in sections until I eventually watched the entire thing in one sitting.
Although there were times when what I was watching did hurt, it helped in the long run. Can't explain why, maybe because it was an absolute re-confirmation to me of his enormous vision and talent, even though it really wasn't needed on my part, but knowing others might and would see the complete professional and master of his domain that he was.
To be honest, in having dealt with death of loved ones and most of my immediate family, as well as patients I've cared for, it helped me to realize the necessity of coming to finality, as hard as it. Doesn't mean it's easy or that I'm closing the book on someone, but as a means of self preservation when reality cannot be avoided.
In the end, everyone copes/comes to terms with/learns personal survival techniques and has to utilize them on an individual basis.
My heart goes out to everyone, Michael's children, his close friends and family, and those amongst us intensely struggling through this loss. Perhaps some will never be able to view the TII dvd. Some will. Respect to all.